Here is the latest question answered by our Dating Guru

“Dear James, I’ve been with my boyfriend for six months now and we are so happy together.  We met on your dating site and he’s everything I’m looking for. I think he wants us to start looking for a place together soon.  However, neither of us has told the other than we love them.  I love him so much but I don’t want to embarrass myself if he doesn’t feel the same!  What should I do?   S.T”

Hi S.T

Many thanks for your message.  It’s fantastic news that you’ve met someone through us and that you are happy together.  I’d say that the fact he’s talking about moving in together is a very positive sign that he sees a future with you.

I know that you don’t want to say you love him in case he gets scared or pretends he’s not heard you.  The problem is that he more than likely feels exactly the same.  The longer you leave it then the worse it will get.

Slip it into conversation when you are saying goodbye to him, as it’s the most natural thing in the world.  “Love you” sounds much softer than “I Love you” so try and say that instead if you think it might shock him.

If you really want to be as gentle as possible, just write it at the end of a text message.  Something simple like “I had such a wonderful evening with you.  I love you :) xxx”           With any luck he’ll text something similar back.   If he doesn’t, don’t panic as he might want to say it face to face.

Whatever you do, don’t ask him if he loves you and force him into saying something he isn’t ready to say yet.   He’ll end up resenting you and you’ll take away his chance to impress/surprise you.

I’d advise you not to move in together until you are sure you both love each other. Otherwise you may have a very bumpy ride together!

Good luck!

James Preece – The Dating Guru

www.asiansinglesolution.com

We love getting your great news!

We have had yet another lovely email from yet another happy couple who met through our site

You can read it here on our Success Story Page:

https://www.asiansinglesolution.com/static/success_stories.html

We’d like to say congratulations to the happy couple and thank them very much for sharing their good news.

Could you be next? If you have a story to tell please let us know!

James and Paul

www.asiansinglesolution.com

Here’s something new for you!

We know how much you love our Asian Singles Parties and Speed Dating Events. The parties are going from strength to strength, but as we get bigger and better we want to try new things.

We’ve had requests for us to try out new ice breaking activities that will get people mingling. We’ve also been asked to run some smaller, pure Hindu or Pure Sikh events.

So we put our heads together to create a new concept of event that will make sure you get more targeted dating opportunities as well as have a fantastic night.  These new events don’t have any speed dating or pressure.

We did run Casino “learn to play” nights a few years ago which were extremely popular. These new parties are will be even better because:

1) Private use of the VIP room – so much more exclusive

2) Fun (free) gaming tables with professionals to teach you how to play Blackjack, Roulette and more.

3) Select crowd of either Hindu or Sikh singles.

4) Central London location so easy to get to.

5) Unique opportunity to try something new and a little different!

The casino elements are completely optional so if you don’t fancy it, don’t worry. You are still free to mingle and talk to any of the other singles that you wish.

If you would like to book then please sign up now as spaces are strictly limited and we expect them to sell out very quickly.  Check out the events section on our site to get your ticket now.

Happy dating!

The Asian Single Solution team

We’ve had another great month for our Asian dating site

Here is just a small selection of the latest emails we’ve had from our Asian members:
Recent Feedbacks

“I wanted to mention what a great team there was behind the scenes.
As if you did not reply I would have not met my other half. ” MD

“Site is amazing” RB

“I am unbelievably grateful (We both are) to the website as it has opened up a new journey for us. To actually find and know that you have met the person you want to spend the rest of your life with is an undescribable and amazing feeling. Thank you for that.! SL
“Services are very good!!!” JP

“A really great service, brilliant way of meeting people” AV

“Excellent site” SP

” I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single
Feed back : Excellent I’m very happy! PF

“Good site and service” SA

” Great site! I would deffo recommend it :” MS

“Really good way to meet people! SC

“Good. Mobile app also good!” NP

If you have your own feedback or succes that you’d like to share with us, please drop us an email to [email protected]

Happy dating!

James, Paul and Meera