{"id":1275,"date":"2011-05-23T12:59:32","date_gmt":"2011-05-23T11:59:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/?p=1275"},"modified":"2011-05-23T12:59:32","modified_gmt":"2011-05-23T11:59:32","slug":"how-to-say-hello","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/asian-dating-advice\/how-to-say-hello\/","title":{"rendered":"How to say hello"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Chat up lines get a bad reputation.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/hello.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-1279\" title=\"hiya\" src=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/hello-300x292.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"240\" height=\"234\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/hello-300x292.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/hello.jpg 707w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>So how else do you start a conversation?<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes the simplest and best chat up line is just to go up to someone and say &#8220;hello.&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0 The golden rule is to make sure that you smile warmly.\u00a0 Smile are contagious and they won&#8217;t be able to stop themselves smiling back.\u00a0\u00a0 It will make you seem like a genuine, nice person as long as you don&#8217;t overdo it.\u00a0\u00a0 If you don&#8217;t smile you&#8217;ll just look miserable and they&#8217;ll be on their guard.<\/p>\n<p>You can say hello to anyone, anywhere and it doesn&#8217;t have to be someone that you fancy.\u00a0 Why not practice talking to people you meet during your day.\u00a0 This can be the postman, waitress, person next to you at the supermarket etc. \u00a0\u00a0 It takes a little bit of effort to get out of your comfort zone but the more you do the easier it will become.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t forget to have something ready to ask once they&#8217;ve said hello back or you&#8217;ll find yourself lost.\u00a0 So ask them a question about what brings them their, tell them you liked something they were wearing or ask their opinion on a suitable subject.\u00a0 Another great question is to just ask how their day or evening is going.<\/p>\n<p>Once you start chatting you&#8217;ll soon fall into natural conversation, so keep up your happy persona and pay lots of attention to what the other person is saying to you.\u00a0 As a guide, you should be talking for 30% of the time and listening for the other 70%.\u00a0\u00a0 Make sure you don&#8217;t ask too many questions or you&#8217;ll look like a stalker.<\/p>\n<p>After a few minutes chatting you will know if you want to see them again. So if you do, tell them you really enjoyed meeting them ask what steps you should take to do it again properly.\u00a0 If they are interested they&#8217;ll then offer you their contact information.<\/p>\n<p>Good luck!<\/p>\n<p>James Preece &#8211; The Dating Guru<\/p>\n<p>www.asiansinglesolution.com<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Chat up lines get a bad reputation. So how else do you start a conversation? 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