{"id":129,"date":"2009-09-24T16:11:54","date_gmt":"2009-09-24T15:11:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/?p=129"},"modified":"2009-09-24T16:11:59","modified_gmt":"2009-09-24T15:11:59","slug":"dealing-with-an-insecure-boyfriend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/asian-dating-advice\/dealing-with-an-insecure-boyfriend\/","title":{"rendered":"Dealing with an insecure boyfriend"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes you might date someone who feels that you are too good for them.  This can be down to insecurity or low self esteem. They&#8217;ll be paranoid and possessive which will cause you both problems. <\/p>\n<p>Here are some tips to help reassure him :<\/p>\n<p>1) Surprise him every now and again. Send him a love letter or cook him a suprise meal. This will show subconsciously show him that you are thinking about him even when you aren&#8217;t together.<\/p>\n<p>2) Be a good listener. Show him that you value his opinions and what he has to say. People naturally feed connected when they believe they are being understood and listened to.<\/p>\n<p>3) It&#8217;s quite normal to feel insecure about things every now again. Reassure him and become his biggest cheerleader. He needs to know that you like him for the whole package<br \/>\n and let him overhear you telling others how wonderful he is.<\/p>\n<p>4) Make yourself available. Always take his calls and make time to be together.  If you disappear it can make him think the worst.<\/p>\n<p>5) Give him an item of jewellery (such as a watch) that he can wear. Every time he thinks about you he&#8217;ll look at it and have an instant psychical and mental reminder about how much you care about it.<\/p>\n<p>James Preece Dating Expert for Asian Single Solution <\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes you might date someone who feels that you are too good for them. This can be down to insecurity or low self esteem. They&#8217;ll be paranoid and possessive which will cause you both problems. Here are some tips to help reassure him : 1) Surprise him every now and again. Send him a love [&hellip;]<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-129","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-asian-dating-advice"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/129","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=129"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/129\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":132,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/129\/revisions\/132"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=129"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=129"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=129"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}