{"id":1353,"date":"2011-07-12T09:42:02","date_gmt":"2011-07-12T08:42:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/?p=1353"},"modified":"2011-07-12T09:42:02","modified_gmt":"2011-07-12T08:42:02","slug":"avoiding-online-dating-cliches","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/asian-dating-advice\/avoiding-online-dating-cliches\/","title":{"rendered":"Avoiding Online Dating Cliches"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Many people keep writing the same dull things in their profiles.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/cliche.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1356\" title=\"cliches\" src=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/cliche.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"313\" height=\"313\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/cliche.jpg 313w, https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/cliche-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/cliche-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 313px) 100vw, 313px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>So today I&#8217;ll tell you what to avoid.<\/p>\n<p>Every week I get to see thousands of new profile and it&#8217;s odd how many all say exactly the same thing.\u00a0 In this blog I&#8217;ll reveal the most common things I see , in the hope you won&#8217;t write the same thing.\u00a0 These are five of the most common Online Dating Cliches that people write:<\/p>\n<p>1) &#8220;I don&#8217;t know what I&#8217;m doing on an online dating site.&#8221;\u00a0 This just  makes you sound arrogant. By writing this you are suggesting that you  are far too good to be on the site and what a hardship it is.\u00a0 As well  as this you are insulting every other member on there too!<\/p>\n<p>2) &#8220;I don&#8217;t know what write&#8221; or &#8220;I&#8217;m not sure what to say.&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0 So you are indecisive and boring right?\u00a0\u00a0 Of course you aren&#8217;t&#8230;.so never write this.\u00a0 Instead carefully write something that will peak their interest and make you sound like someone they&#8217;d like to meet.\u00a0 Work out what&#8217;s special about you and tell the world.<\/p>\n<p>3) &#8220;My friends and family are important to me.&#8221;\u00a0 Isn&#8217;t this really  just stating the obvious? Friends and family are important to everyone.\u00a0  It would be much more worrying and abnormal if they weren&#8217;t!<\/p>\n<p>4) &#8220;No time wasters\/ players\/ etc&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 This gives the impression that  you&#8217;ve had some bad experiences in the past and are therefore judging  all people before you&#8217;ve given them a chance. It&#8217;s doubtful that anyone  would ever admit to being a time waster anyway.<\/p>\n<p>5) &#8220;I&#8217;m open minded&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0 While most people write this with the  intention that they have no expectations when it comes to dating, the  reality is that it comes across as if you looking for a casual  relationship.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Try and be a bit more creative, and you&#8217;ll have a dynamic ,  interesting profile that will help you stand out from all the other singles.<\/p>\n<p>Good luck,<\/p>\n<p>James Preece &#8211; The Dating Guru<\/p>\n<p>www.asiansinglesolution.com<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Many people keep writing the same dull things in their profiles. So today I&#8217;ll tell you what to avoid. 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