{"id":1487,"date":"2011-11-13T11:59:26","date_gmt":"2011-11-13T10:59:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/?p=1487"},"modified":"2011-11-14T14:29:45","modified_gmt":"2011-11-14T13:29:45","slug":"the-ex-factor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/asian-dating-advice\/the-ex-factor\/","title":{"rendered":"The Ex Factor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Are you letting your partners ex get in the way?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/ex.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1523\" title=\"ex\" src=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/ex.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"170\" height=\"190\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Stop making this big dating mistake!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ve all got a dating past.\u00a0 So why do so many people allow it cause problems and get in the way of new relationships?<\/p>\n<p>The biggest issue is that it&#8217;s easy to feel second best and to compare yourself to their ex.\u00a0 You might wonder if you are good enough or if they might come back on the scene and spoil things.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that if they still wanted to be together then they would be. But they aren&#8217;t and your partner has chosen to be with you.\u00a0 So you&#8217;ve won the prize.\u00a0 What&#8217;s the point in feeling you have to continue to compete?<\/p>\n<p>The only time a conversation about an ex is useful is when you talk about what went wrong.\u00a0 If you find out the reason they broke up then you can avoid making the same mistakes.\u00a0 We all do things wrong but the big secret is to learn from them and not repeat the same errors.<br \/>\nGood luck!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>James Preece &#8211; The Dating Guru<\/p>\n<p>www.asiansinglesolution.com<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are you letting your partners ex get in the way? Stop making this big dating mistake! &nbsp; We&#8217;ve all got a dating past.\u00a0 So why do so many people allow it cause problems and get in the way of new relationships? The biggest issue is that it&#8217;s easy to feel second best and to compare [&hellip;]<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1487","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-asian-dating-advice"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1487","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1487"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1487\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1536,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1487\/revisions\/1536"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1487"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1487"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1487"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}