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<\/a><\/p>\nby our Dating Coach.<\/p>\n
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” Hi, I have been to some of your dating events.\u00a0 I wonder if you can help me?\u00a0 Sometimes, when I find someone attractive at these events I find some guy is sticking to her like bee to honey. Any tips on how I can get past this guy who is completely glued to the attractive girl? Thanks! ”\u00a0 M<\/p>\n
That’s a good question.\u00a0 It’s something people often ask me, so you’ll be pleased to know I have some answers!<\/p>\n
Firstly, remember that you’ve paid to buy a ticket so you have just as much right to talk to these girls as the other men.\u00a0\u00a0 So don’t be afraid to go up and say hello, even if you have to (politely) interrupt the other conversation.\u00a0 She might well be wanting an escape route anyway!<\/p>\n
A great way of doing this is to use your icebreaker card.\u00a0 Have a quick listen to what they are talking about then walk up and ask them both what card they have.\u00a0 Once conversation is started, you can jump in with your own thoughts.<\/p>\n
Also, if you can’t attend with a female friend make sure you use the staff. They are there to help you get dating success.\u00a0 If you tell them that you would like to meet someone then they can engineer things to make it happen.\u00a0 Don’t worry, they are highly trained and very subtle.<\/p>\n
You should always take part in the speed dating, even if the girl you like isn’t in that particular round.\u00a0 You will get good conversation practice and you might just meet someone better. Even if you don’t you could possibly make a new female friend who can help you interact with other women.<\/p>\n
If you really don’t get a chance to speak to them then make sure you take a note of their username.\u00a0 You can then email them on the website the next morning.<\/p>\n
Finally, make sure that you look like someone women want to meet.\u00a0 Dress well and look friendly and happy. That way they are more likely to come up and say hi to you.<\/p>\n
Good luck!<\/p>\n
If you have your own dating question you’d like answered, drop a line to info@asiansinglesolution.com
\nJames Preece – Dating Coach<\/p>\n