{"id":1704,"date":"2012-04-14T12:15:30","date_gmt":"2012-04-14T11:15:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/?p=1704"},"modified":"2012-04-14T12:15:30","modified_gmt":"2012-04-14T11:15:30","slug":"be-clear-about-your-intentions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/asian-dating-news\/be-clear-about-your-intentions\/","title":{"rendered":"Be clear about your intentions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s so easy to get stuck in the friends zone<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/index.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1705\" title=\"index\" src=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/index.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/index.jpg 225w, https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/index-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>So here&#8217;s a quick tip to avoid it!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You find someone that you like and you ask them if they&#8217;d like to join you for a\u00a0 drink\/meal\/night out one evening.\u00a0 You are naturally excited about meeting up and wonder where it might lead.\u00a0 You have a fantastic night and think that you&#8217;d quite like to see them again.\u00a0 But they hit you with the big bombshell &#8211; they thought you were meeting as friends!<br \/>\nSo why did this happen?<\/p>\n<p>Well, chances are that you didn&#8217;t make it obvious enough that you were both going out on an actual date.\u00a0\u00a0 The other person didn&#8217;t know what was happening either, so in order to protect themselves from rejection they chose to assume it was a friends thing.<\/p>\n<p>1)\u00a0 Make sure you make it absolutely crystal clear that you are interested in them and that you&#8217;d like to go on a date.<\/p>\n<p>2) Flirt and show them that you are interested.\u00a0\u00a0 Touch them on the arm every now and again and make sure you have lots and lots of eye contact.<\/p>\n<p>3) Don&#8217;t talk about each others problems. That&#8217;s what friends do, not possible dating partners.<\/p>\n<p>4) End the date with a kiss.\u00a0 If you like them and you got on well, then by all means go in for a kiss.\u00a0 This is a very clear signal that you aren&#8217;t just mates or there for a business meeting.<\/p>\n<p>Good luck!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>James Preece &#8211; The Dating Guru<\/p>\n<p>www.asiansinglesolution.com<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s so easy to get stuck in the friends zone So here&#8217;s a quick tip to avoid it! &nbsp; You find someone that you like and you ask them if they&#8217;d like to join you for a\u00a0 drink\/meal\/night out one evening.\u00a0 You are naturally excited about meeting up and wonder where it might lead.\u00a0 You [&hellip;]<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1704","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-asian-dating-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1704","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1704"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1704\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1712,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1704\/revisions\/1712"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1704"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1704"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1704"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}