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“Dear James,\u00a0 I seem to be proving popular on Asiansinglesolution.com as I’ve had 100 emails and over 200 winks.\u00a0 However, I’ve not met anyone perfect yet.\u00a0 Can you give me any advice to increase my chances?\u00a0 Thanks, K”<\/p>\n
Hi K,<\/p>\n
Thank you for your email.\u00a0 It’s great that you have had so many winks and emails as it shows you are doing something right.\u00a0 You’ve put some effort in to making sure you’ve got a decent photograph and profile so it’s clearly working.\u00a0 However, you are making one fatal error – you haven’t initiated any contact yourself!<\/p>\n
It really doesn’t matter how many people wink at you, add you to favourites or send you emails if they aren’t great matches.\u00a0 If you want to be successful then you need to take control. Contact the members that YOU like the look of, not the other way round.\u00a0\u00a0 I always say this, but you must be proactive if you want to get good results.\u00a0\u00a0 By making contact yourself then you are initiating correspondence with quality people that are a great match for you.<\/p>\n
By the way, Winking isn’t a great strategy. It comes across as lazy as it appears you can’t be bothered to to write a proper message.\u00a0 It doens’t make anyone feel special and you run the risk of turning someone off before you’ve even spoken.\u00a0 Every now and again it can work, providing you follow up with a message once you can see they’ve viewed your profile.<\/p>\n
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Good luck!<\/p>\n
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James Preece – The Dating Guru<\/p>\n
www.asiansinglesolution.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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