{"id":1812,"date":"2012-07-09T10:57:32","date_gmt":"2012-07-09T09:57:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/?p=1812"},"modified":"2012-07-09T10:57:32","modified_gmt":"2012-07-09T09:57:32","slug":"how-to-spot-a-loser","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/asian-dating-advice\/how-to-spot-a-loser\/","title":{"rendered":"How to spot a loser"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Are you dating a loser?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/loser1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-1817\" title=\"loser\" src=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/loser1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"280\" height=\"280\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/loser1.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/loser1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/loser1-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 280px) 100vw, 280px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Find out how to spot one right now.<\/p>\n<p>The Dating Pool is made up of a wide variety of people. Most are lovely, thoughtful individuals but there are of course a few who are a little more &#8220;unrefined.&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 So can you tell who is who before you waste too much time?<\/p>\n<p>To help, there are some simple steps you can take to filter out these idiots.\u00a0 If you have your doubts then ask yourself these questions:<br \/>\n1) How are they with their friends and family?\u00a0 If you are wary, watch how they act with them before introducing them to any of yours<\/p>\n<p>2) What are their texts like?\u00a0\u00a0 If they can&#8217;t spell or take the time to send you nice messages, that&#8217;s a good indication they are not a keeper.<\/p>\n<p>3) Is their glass half full or half empty?\u00a0 Negative people are more likely to be clueless interacting with others and will only get you feeling low too. Only date those that are ambitious, passionate and positive.<\/p>\n<p>4) Have you read their Facebook profile?\u00a0\u00a0 Take a good look at their wall posts, friend interactions and photos.\u00a0 These can reveal so much more than they&#8217;d like you to know.<\/p>\n<p>5) Are they affectionate?\u00a0 If they are more likely to hug a teddy bear or an Xbox controller than you, there&#8217;s not much point pursuing a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Do you have your own ways to avoid time wasters and losers?\u00a0 Add your thoughts here to help everyone else!<\/p>\n<p>Happy dating,<\/p>\n<p>James Preece\u00a0 &#8211; The Dating Guru<\/p>\n<p>www.asiansinglesolution.com<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are you dating a loser? Find out how to spot one right now. The Dating Pool is made up of a wide variety of people. 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