{"id":2350,"date":"2013-12-02T12:40:31","date_gmt":"2013-12-02T11:40:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/?p=2350"},"modified":"2013-12-02T12:40:31","modified_gmt":"2013-12-02T11:40:31","slug":"dating-gurus-mailbag-where-does-he-go","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/asian-dating-advice\/dating-gurus-mailbag-where-does-he-go\/","title":{"rendered":"Dating Guru&#8217;s Mailbag:   Where does he go?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s another dating problem<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Plane.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-2352\" title=\"Plane\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Plane.jpg\" width=\"227\" height=\"142\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>answered by our dating expert<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Dear James,<\/p>\n<p>Please can you help? \u00a0I&#8217;ve been dating a lovely guy for the last two years. \u00a0 He&#8217;s fun, intelligent, charming and things are generally pretty good between us. \u00a0However, sometimes he goes away on work business and a I don&#8217; t hear from him during that time. \u00a0He says it&#8217;s because he&#8217;s so busy and tired from the travelling. \u00a0This can upset me but I don&#8217;t want to cause problems so I try not make a big deal out of it. \u00a0What can I do? \u00a0 G &#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Hi G,<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for your email. \u00a0 \u00a0To be honest he sounds like he&#8217;s not that bothered about whether he speaks to you or not. \u00a0He can&#8217;t be so intelligent and charming if he&#8217;s making you feel bad. \u00a0 How hard would it be to send you a quick text, email or make a five minute phone call to catch up with you? \u00a0 My guess is that he&#8217;s either up to something or he&#8217;s just thoughtless. \u00a0Either way, you should confront him over it. \u00a0Tell him ( with a smile) that you understand he&#8217;s busy, but \u00a0you are looking for a partner who doesn&#8217;t vanish for days on end. If he doesn&#8217;t change, then send him packing and find someone who will make time for you.<\/p>\n<p>Good luck!<\/p>\n<p>James Preece<\/p>\n<p>The Dating Guru<\/p>\n<p>www.asiansinglesolution.com<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s another dating problem answered by our dating expert &#8220;Dear James, Please can you help? \u00a0I&#8217;ve been dating a lovely guy for the last two years. \u00a0 He&#8217;s fun, intelligent, charming and things are generally pretty good between us. \u00a0However, sometimes he goes away on work business and a I don&#8217; t hear from him [&hellip;]<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2350","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-asian-dating-advice"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2350","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2350"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2350\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2545,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2350\/revisions\/2545"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2350"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2350"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2350"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}