Ok, so you went on a first date and are wondering what to do now.<\/p>\n
When should contact them? What do you say?<\/p>\n
The trouble with first dates is that you never know what the other person is thinking.\u00a0 You might think it was amazing but they just weren’t feeling it.\u00a0 In fact, they are probably also wondering what to do next.<\/p>\n
Firstly, always thank them. It’s just polite. You only need to send a quick text when you get home.<\/p>\n
There are now three possible paths:<\/p>\n
You aren’t sure if you want to see them again.<\/span><\/p>\n Life isn’t easy and you might well have mixed emotions about a date. I’d always sugget a second date if you are undecided but you’ll need time to think it over. \u00a0 Leave it 24 hours to think carefully about it and then go on to one of the next two steps.<\/p>\n You want to see them again<\/span><\/p>\n Excellent!\u00a0 Let them know you thought it went well and you’d like to see them again.\u00a0 Assuming they liked you too, they’ll be pleased to have their minds put at rest. Make sure you arrange a second date around one week after your first one.\u00a0 Any later and you’ll forget the connection, any sooner and you might burn out too quickly!\u00a0 It can be hard to find things to say if nothing new has happened in the time you’ve been apart.<\/p>\n You don’t want to see them again<\/span><\/p>\n It’s hard line between being hurting someone’s feelings and making it clear you don’t have a future.\u00a0\u00a0 However, I’d always advise letting them know this quickly so they don’t hold out hope of further dates.\u00a0 It’s\u00a0 best to be honest but if you can’t, tell them you thought they were cool but reminded you too much of your brother or sister.<\/p>\n Sometimes you just won’t hear from them again. They’ll disappear and you’ll never hear from them again. You’ll never quite know why but when this happens be happy that you had a narrow escape and get back on track and start dating new people.<\/p>\n Happy Dating,<\/p>\n James Preece – The Dating Guru<\/p>\n www.asiansinglesolution.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Ok, so you went on a first date and are wondering what to do now. When should contact them? What do you say? The trouble with first dates is that you never know what the other person is thinking.\u00a0 You might think it was amazing but they just weren’t feeling it.\u00a0 In fact, they are […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-241","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-asian-dating-advice"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/241","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=241"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/241\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":250,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/241\/revisions\/250"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=241"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=241"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=241"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}