{"id":2547,"date":"2014-03-31T11:44:13","date_gmt":"2014-03-31T10:44:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/?p=2547"},"modified":"2014-03-31T11:44:13","modified_gmt":"2014-03-31T10:44:13","slug":"dating-guru-mailbag-how-to-ask-how-someone-i-like","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/asian-dating-advice\/dating-guru-mailbag-how-to-ask-how-someone-i-like\/","title":{"rendered":"Dating Guru Mailbag: How to ask how someone I like"},"content":{"rendered":"
Here is our latest dating problem answered\r\n\r\n\"539w\"<\/span><\/a>\r\nby our Dating Expert\r\n\r\n\"Dear James,  I really like a girl in my local supermarket. She's studying at university but works there part time. I often catch her looking at me and her friends keep telling me she likes me. How can I ask her out without making a fool of myself? M\"\r\n\r\nHi M,\r\nThank you for your message!\r\n\r\nThe good news is that I think she definitely likes you.  All the signs are \r\nthere, so there's absolutely no harm in trying. \r\n\r\nI'm wondering why you queue in a different one that she is in though?   Your \r\nfirst test should be to make sure you queue in her one next time, even if it is \r\nclearly the longest one.  That way you'll be able to really read her reactions. \r\n\r\nDon't forget that a lot of people will make small talk with her - that's just \r\npart of her job.  So you need to do something a bit more.  Perhaps joke that \r\nhers is always the slowest queue or tell her you want to cook something but \r\naren't sure what.  Could she give you a recipe?  Do this a few times over a \r\nperiod of a few days\/weeks to build up the trust.  If you go in to quickly she \r\nmight be too nervous.  Be friendly, smiling and interesting.\r\n\r\nYour job is to make her smile, make her want to see you and brighten her day \r\njust by the very fact you've spoken. \r\n\r\nObviously you won't be able to have a long conversation with her as people will \r\nbe waiting. So....you could tell her that really enjoy talking to her and wish \r\nit could be longer. You'd love to get to know her better.  What steps could you \r\ntake to make that happen? \r\n\r\nHopefully she will offer her phone number at this point.  If not, just ask her \r\nfor it and tell her you promise not to send her photos of barcodes all day long!\r\n\r\nDon't give her your number as you lose control - so make sure you get hers. You \r\ncan then text her later that day\/evening to ask when she finishes her shift and \r\nsuggest you grab a coffee. \r\n\r\nI really hope it works out for you, so let me know what happens.  If it doesn't \r\ngo well, don't worry as at least you tried!\r\n\r\nBest Wishes, \r\n\r\nJames\r\n\r\nIf you'd like help with your own dating problem please email us at info@asiansinglesolution.com      The best will be answered anonymously here. <\/tt><\/span><\/pre>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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