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<\/a><\/p>\n“Dear James, I’ve been with my boyfriend for six months now and we are so happy together. \u00a0We met on your dating site and he’s everything I’m looking for. I think he wants us to start looking for a place together soon. \u00a0However, neither of us has told the other than we love them. \u00a0I love him so much but I don’t want to embarrass myself if he doesn’t feel the same! \u00a0What should I do? \u00a0 S.T”<\/p>\n
Hi S.T<\/p>\n
Many thanks for your message. \u00a0It’s fantastic news that you’ve met someone through us and that you are happy together. \u00a0I’d say that the fact he’s talking about moving in together is a very positive sign that he sees a future with you.<\/p>\n
I know that you don’t want to say you love him in case he gets scared or pretends he’s not heard you. \u00a0The problem is that he more than likely feels exactly the same. \u00a0The longer you leave it then the worse it will get.<\/p>\n
Slip it into conversation when you are saying goodbye to him, as it’s the most natural thing in the world. \u00a0“Love you” sounds much softer than “I Love you” so try and say that instead if you think it might shock him.<\/p>\n
If you really want to be as gentle as possible, just write it at the end of a text message. \u00a0Something simple like “I had such a wonderful evening with you. \u00a0I love you :) xxx” \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 With any luck he’ll text something similar back. \u00a0 If he doesn’t, don’t panic as he might want to say it face to face.<\/p>\n
Whatever you do, don’t ask him if he loves you and force him into saying something he isn’t ready to say yet. \u00a0 He’ll end up resenting you and you’ll take away his chance to impress\/surprise you.<\/p>\n
I’d advise you not to move in together until you are sure you both love each other. Otherwise you may have a very bumpy ride together!<\/p>\n
Good luck!<\/p>\n
James Preece – The Dating Guru<\/p>\n
www.asiansinglesolution.com<\/p>\n
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