{"id":270,"date":"2010-02-16T16:18:44","date_gmt":"2010-02-16T15:18:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/?p=270"},"modified":"2010-02-16T16:28:09","modified_gmt":"2010-02-16T15:28:09","slug":"social-networking-flirting-is-it-cheating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/asian-dating-news\/social-networking-flirting-is-it-cheating\/","title":{"rendered":"Social Networking Flirting: Is it cheating?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>With the popularity of online social websites such as Facebook, Myspace and Twitter, flirting can take on a whole new dimension.\u00a0 They offer exciting new opportunities to meet new partners and chat up new love interests. I&#8217;m going to write an article soon about how to flirt and meet new people via these avenues, but for now I&#8217;m going to talk about online fidelity.<\/p>\n<p>Just this week,\u00a0 married celebrities like Vernon Kay and Ashley Cole have been caught &#8220;virtually cheating&#8221; online with other women. They&#8217;ve texted sexual images back and forth, thinking it to be safe ground.<\/p>\n<p>If you are seeing someone, what are the rules when it comes to using these sites?\u00a0 Is it ever ok to flirt with complete strangers you&#8217;ll never meet, or add your exes?<\/p>\n<p>Social networking sites can be addictive, especially if you&#8217;ve got something lacking in the real world.\u00a0 It&#8217;s easy to get caught up in the fantasy environment and flirt with exes or new people. It feels completely safe and something nobody every need know about. People love an ego boost, so if a hot girl or guy tries to get in touch it can be very tempting to continue.\u00a0 It connects you to those you otherwise wouldn&#8217;t meet or renew friendships with people you weren&#8217;t too concerned about.<\/p>\n<p>The thing is, many people still see it as\u00a0 cheating, even if it&#8217;s just emotionally. Instead on focussing on your relationship and making your partner happy, you are giving attention and energy to other people instead.<\/p>\n<p>J.M. Kearns, author of \u00e2\u20ac\u02dcBetter Love Next Time says: &#8221; &#8220;Social Networking sites are a neutral tool that can be used for innocent or guilty purposes. If they are\u00a0 talking to an ex through the public forums, they may just be keeping in touch.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d But if they are only using the site&#8217;s private forums, that could be a different story.\u00a0 If this is becoming an issue then you need to start setting the boundaries.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d advise that you if you find yourself entering risky territory then take a step back.\u00a0 If you are in a relationship then it&#8217;s never ok to take things beyond friendship with anyone else.\u00a0 How would you feel if you found out your partner was doing it?\u00a0 If you have to can&#8217;t stop then you need to work out what&#8217;s missing from your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, if you are single then flirt away!<\/p>\n<p>James Preece &#8211; The Dating Guru<\/p>\n<p>www.asiansinglesolution.com<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>With the popularity of online social websites such as Facebook, Myspace and Twitter, flirting can take on a whole new dimension.\u00a0 They offer exciting new opportunities to meet new partners and chat up new love interests. 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