{"id":2806,"date":"2017-08-31T15:49:22","date_gmt":"2017-08-31T14:49:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/?p=2806"},"modified":"2017-08-30T10:55:51","modified_gmt":"2017-08-30T09:55:51","slug":"five-ways-to-guarantee-a-second-date","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/asian-dating-advice\/five-ways-to-guarantee-a-second-date\/","title":{"rendered":"Five ways to guarantee a Second Date"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\">First dates are fun, exciting, and usually pretty awesome. \u00a0However, sometimes they are can scary or boring and something you never want to want to repeat.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/iStock_000027595007XSmall.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2809\" src=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/iStock_000027595007XSmall.jpg\" alt=\"long beard and mustache man giving flowers\" width=\"424\" height=\"283\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/iStock_000027595007XSmall.jpg 424w, https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/iStock_000027595007XSmall-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 424px) 100vw, 424px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">So our goal is to make sure you always have an amazing first date. \u00a0That&#8217;s the easy part. \u00a0We then need\u00a0to make sure that you get the second date!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Here are five ways to guarantee that second date:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">1) The first way to guarantee a second date is ask for one.\u00a0 This seems like the most obvious thing, but many first dates end with no set plan on if you will meet again, and then both parties are waiting for the other to call, text, message and nothing will ever happen. So find out if they&#8217;d like to meet again at the end of your first meeting.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">2) Play it cool.\u00a0 Don\u2019t overdo it with the compliments or phrases that share what a great time you are having on the date.\u00a0 Saying \u201cI\u2019m having a great time\u201d \u00a0once is a good thing, it lets the other person know you are having a good time, but you don\u2019t want to overkill it.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">3) Remember to ask questions and listen to the answer.\u00a0 When you and the date are conversing it shows that you have an interest in your date will make them feel involved.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">\u00a04) Keep the topics of conversation light.\u00a0 You don\u2019t want to talk about your medical issues, death or other heavy topics because you want to have fun and learn about the other.\u00a0 The big stuff can wait until the fifth date or sometime afterwards once you know each a lot better. Leave them wanting to know more about you<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">5) Plan exciting dates. \u00a0Having coffee or cocktail dates is all very well, but if you are doing a lot of dating it can get tiring fast. \u00a0So think about how you can spice things up a bit and stand out from your competition. \u00a0If you date is the most exciting they&#8217;ve had in ages, they will naturally want to repeat it. \u00a0This is true whether you are male or female as you could be taking it in turns to plan your dates.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">These are five simple ways to guarantee a second date with someone that you had a splendid first date with.\u00a0 Attraction is a tricky thing, so just be honest with the date and have fun being yourself.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Happy dating!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">James Preece &#8211; The Dating Guru<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">www.asiansinglesolution.com<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>First dates are fun, exciting, and usually pretty awesome. \u00a0However, sometimes they are can scary or boring and something you never want to want to repeat. 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