I’ve had a lot of emails about my blog post on the top things never to say on a first date.\u00a0\u00a0 A lot of people have told me about other very strange things people have said to them but there’s one thing that crops up scarily often.\u00a0\u00a0 I’ve heard this so many times that I wanted to share it with you.\u00a0 If it’s happened to you too then let me know!<\/p>\n
It’s what I call the “empty wallet” story…<\/p>\n
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\nTo summarise, it goes like this.\u00a0 The man invites the lady out on a date – perhaps for some drinks or a meal.\u00a0 They get on well and at the end of the evening the bill arrives.\u00a0 The man goes to open his wallet only to be stunned that he’s somehow left all his money ( and credit cards!) behind.<\/p>\n
“Oh dear,” he says, ” I seem to have come out without any cash.\u00a0 Would you mind paying now and I’ll get it next time?”<\/p>\n
As if there would even be a next time. I’ve even heard a version of this where the man has ordered the most expensive items from the menu and the lady has just had salad and\u00a0 a mineral water.\u00a0 Another lady did foolishly agree to cough up and arranged another restaurant date only for him to try exactly the same trick again!<\/p>\n
Men, this is absolutely not cool or funny.\u00a0 This can’t be an accident and nobody goes out without any money.\u00a0 Your main job on a date is to make the best first impression you possibly can.\u00a0 If you refuse to pay then it makes you look mean, tight fisted and downright rude.\u00a0\u00a0 On top of this it will make you look incredibly stupid and you’ll undo any good work you might have made during the date.<\/p>\n
So the bottom line is bring enough money to cover the date and act like a gentleman.<\/p>\n
Of course it’s not just men who do this.\u00a0 Many women expect the men to pay and will “forget” to bring money with them as a test.\u00a0 Again, this is wrong. While the man should generally always pay on the first date, the woman should at least offer.<\/p>\n
James Preece – The Dating Guru<\/p>\n
www.asiansinglesolution.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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