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<\/p>\nToday I’m bringing back my very popular Dating Advice as I’ve had a question from a member:<\/p>\n
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“Hi James, I wonder if you can answer this problem for me as it’s really confusing me. \u00a0I’m getting frustrated because I only seem to get contacted by men who are nothing like I’m looking for. They are either too old, too far away or generally not suitable. \u00a0How can I stop this and get the good ones to get in touch? \u00a0M”<\/em><\/p>\n Hey M,<\/p>\n Thanks for your message. \u00a0I completely understand what you mean. \u00a0However, it’s not working simply because your strategy is wrong. These men won’t always know if you are a good match or not until you’ve spoken, so they are just taking their chances. \u00a0You can’t really blame them, although they should really pay more attention and consider if you might really be compatible or not.<\/p>\n The thing is, it doesn’t really matter who contacts you. \u00a0Instead, it’s all about you being proactive and reaching out to the men that you are interested in instead. \u00a0That way you are in control and not sat around waiting for the “online dating lottery” to get your numbers up.<\/p>\n It’s a bit like applying for a job. If you wanted to get the position of your dreams, you’d write a great CV and make sure it went out to the right companies. \u00a0You wouldn’t just see which random companies decide to contact you and hope for the best.<\/p>\n I’d suggest you email at least five men a day. It may sound a lot but once you start to get replies back then you can cut down. Be open minded and you never know what might happen.<\/p>\n Finally, it would be best to make sure you fill your online dating profile in as much as possible. \u00a0Don’t be negative and talk about what you don’t want in a partner, but focus on the things that yuo really do. \u00a0That way someone reading it can make a better decision about whether they really should contact you or not.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Do you have own dating dilemma or relationship issue that you’d like some help with? \u00a0I’m a leading Dating Coach and I work with the Asian Single Solution to make sure their members are successful in love. \u00a0Email me at info@asiansinglesolution.com and I’ll answer some of the best ones here in this blog..anonymously of course!<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Happy dating, The Dating Guru<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Today I’m bringing back my very popular Dating Advice as I’ve had a question from a member: “Hi James, I wonder if you can answer this problem for me as it’s really confusing me. \u00a0I’m getting frustrated because I only seem to get contacted by men who are nothing like I’m looking for. They are […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[19,90,41,21,20],"class_list":["post-3388","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-asian-dating-advice","tag-asian-dating","tag-dating-advice","tag-dating-coach","tag-hindu-dating","tag-sikh-dating"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3388","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3388"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3388\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3391,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3388\/revisions\/3391"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3388"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3388"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3388"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nJames Preece<\/p>\n