“Love me as I am” said the single love-seeker. However, this is a high risk strategy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In seeking a partner, you should be working on yourself to ensure that you are ready to meet someone, attract them and keep them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Here are a few handy ideas to help you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Get ready to make space and time in your schedule to meet someone. This might be a few hours on a Sunday afternoon to message potentials, then a couple of nights in the week to actually go out and meet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
To make a relationship work, you will need to share not only your time, but also your emotional energy, space if you move in together and also financial resources.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Getting in shape can make you feel great and boost your confidence to help you meet someone in the first place. Good health is always seen as an attractive quality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dressing well and taking pride in your appearance is very attractive. Dress especially for your body shape to boost the bits you are proud of and to hide those that you want to tuck away. Throw away any clothes with worn collars or faded shirts. These will affect the first impression.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Once you start dating, you will likely end up having to share your personal space and ultimately revealing your body to someone new. This can be an exciting adventure and preparation for this can lead to greater success.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
To successfully date, you need to put yourself on show and have an action plan. That may mean putting up lots of photos on your profile and creating what is essentially a marketing plan. There are no short cuts to this. If you give too little away in the description it just looks like you are not taking it seriously and this will work against you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We restrict photos to other members so you do have some sense of remaining private. If you have a genuine reason to hide your images, we have solutions on request. Please ask.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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