{"id":575,"date":"2010-06-01T11:21:09","date_gmt":"2010-06-01T10:21:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/?p=575"},"modified":"2010-06-10T11:26:27","modified_gmt":"2010-06-10T10:26:27","slug":"the-compliment-currency","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/asian-dating-advice\/the-compliment-currency\/","title":{"rendered":"The Compliment Currency"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Compliments are a strong currency when it comes to flirting and getting to know someone. But it&#8217;s so easy to get it wrong!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-577\" title=\"compliment\" src=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/06\/compliment_reindeer-300x208.jpg\" alt=\"compliment\" width=\"300\" height=\"208\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/06\/compliment_reindeer-300x208.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/06\/compliment_reindeer.jpg 349w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You know what it&#8217;s like to get a compliment.\u00a0 You might be flattered but you will often be suspicious too.\u00a0 Perhaps you&#8217;ll think they are being insincere or trying to get round you in some way.\u00a0 The same goes for when you give one yourself. So here is a simple tip to help you get round this problem:<\/p>\n<p>Do it via a friend!<\/p>\n<p>Yes, it&#8217;s that easy.\u00a0 Tell a mutual friend how wonderful you think the person you are interested in is.\u00a0\u00a0 Don&#8217;t go over the top and don&#8217;t make them aware of what you are up to. Instead, just throw the compliment into the conversation.\u00a0 Make sure it&#8217;s nothing too sexual or personal either. You could say something along the lines of \u00e2\u20ac\u0153He&#8217;s really entertaining or I loved her necklace.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d You can bet anything that your mutual friend will have passed the message on within 24 hours.<\/p>\n<p>By delivering compliment through a third party the impact doubles and they&#8217;ll instantly become more believable. \u00a0A compliment that someone overhears is must more powerful that one that they actually hear.<\/p>\n<p>You can also use this tip to get some of the glory from someone else&#8217;s compliment too.\u00a0\u00a0 If you hear someone saying good things about a friend, then tell them all about it.\u00a0\u00a0 When they feel good from hearing this, they&#8217;ll tie you in to the \u00e2\u20ac\u0153feel good\u00e2\u20ac\u009d emotion that it triggers.<\/p>\n<p>Just remember to only keep it to compliments.\u00a0 You don&#8217;t want to associate yourself with any negative comments to idle gossip.<\/p>\n<p>Happy Dating!<\/p>\n<p>James Preece &#8211; The Dating Guru<\/p>\n<p>www.asiansinglesolution.com<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Compliments are a strong currency when it comes to flirting and getting to know someone. 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