{"id":581,"date":"2010-06-02T12:35:22","date_gmt":"2010-06-02T11:35:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/?p=581"},"modified":"2010-06-02T12:35:22","modified_gmt":"2010-06-02T11:35:22","slug":"avoiding-the-green-eyed-monster","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/asian-dating-advice\/avoiding-the-green-eyed-monster\/","title":{"rendered":"Avoiding the Green Eyed Monster"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In today&#8217;s blog I&#8217;m going to be looking at the subject of jealousy in relationships and how you can avoid it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-583\" title=\"green\" src=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/06\/green-monster-192x300.jpg\" alt=\"green\" width=\"192\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/06\/green-monster-192x300.jpg 192w, https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/06\/green-monster.jpg 220w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 192px) 100vw, 192px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Jealousy can be a funny thing.\u00a0 It can creep up when you least expect it and small worries can quickly become big problems if not dealt with.<\/p>\n<p>The theory is that jealousy is an evolutionary process that protects us when there is a threat to reproducing.<\/p>\n<p>Women tend to feel threatened by younger, more attractive rivals. Men are more wary of others who earn more money than them.\u00a0 However, it&#8217; s just people that you can be jealous of but rather anything that distances you from your partner.\u00a0 This could be work, hobbies, friends of family.\u00a0 The threat can be real but is quite often imagined.<\/p>\n<p>Too much jealousy can destroy happy relationships, especially if you are constantly questioning each other.\u00a0 It&#8217;s uncertain relationships that have the biggest issues.\u00a0 If you aren&#8217;t clear about the direction you are heading in or if you are both being faithful then it&#8217;s only natural to want to question things.<\/p>\n<p>My advice is to talk about any issues as soon as they come up. Ask yourself what you are really worried about and never forget that you wouldn&#8217;t be together if one of you didn&#8217;t want to be.\u00a0 It might also help to talk to friends too as they&#8217;ll be able to offer you a different perspective on things.\u00a0\u00a0 Above all, keep calm and don&#8217;t interrogate or you&#8217;ll find yourself pushing them away rather than bringing you together.<\/p>\n<p>Studies have shown that a little bit of jealousy can actually be good for a relationship.\u00a0 It can make you work harder, keep you both on your toes and spice things up. After all, isn&#8217;t it good to know that someone wants want you have?<\/p>\n<p>Happy dating!<\/p>\n<p>James Preece &#8211; The Dating Guru<\/p>\n<p>www.asiansinglesolution.com<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In today&#8217;s blog I&#8217;m going to be looking at the subject of jealousy in relationships and how you can avoid it. Jealousy can be a funny thing.\u00a0 It can creep up when you least expect it and small worries can quickly become big problems if not dealt with. 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