{"id":600,"date":"2010-06-04T11:06:51","date_gmt":"2010-06-04T10:06:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/?p=600"},"modified":"2010-06-04T11:06:51","modified_gmt":"2010-06-04T10:06:51","slug":"why-you-shouldnt-try-to-win-arguments","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/asian-dating-advice\/why-you-shouldnt-try-to-win-arguments\/","title":{"rendered":"Why you Shouldn&#8217;t Try to Win Arguments"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There comes a time in the happiest of relationships when you won&#8217;t see eye to eye.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-602\" title=\"row\" src=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/06\/argument.jpg\" alt=\"row\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" \/><br \/>\nThis is quite normal behaviour.\u00a0 After all, if you agreed on everything life would be very dull.<\/p>\n<p>However, disagreements can quickly become arguments which can escalate to major rows.\u00a0 It&#8217;s important you learn to keep things on the first level so you don&#8217;t allow them to escalate.<\/p>\n<p>A common destroyer of relationships is seeing it as a competition rather than a joint effort.<\/p>\n<p>When people see themselves as opponents rather than partners, they often try to use unfair tactics such as using insults or perhaps shutting down completely.\u00a0 Alternatively, they might do the opposite and fight fairly and try to outsmart the other person using logic and being overly nice.\u00a0 \u00a0 But ultimately these are both two sides of the same kind\u00a0 Both strategies\u00a0 are employed as a way to \u00e2\u20ac\u0153win\u00e2\u20ac\u009d the argument.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 They are trying to be the \u00e2\u20ac\u0153good\u00e2\u20ac\u009d partner and prove that the other person is in the wrong, not them.<\/p>\n<p>If this sounds like you then you need t0 learn to stop doing\u00a0 it.<\/p>\n<p>The best way to end an argument is to apologise, even if you know deep down that you are right. This will nip it in the bud before things get worse.<\/p>\n<p>Happy Dating!<\/p>\n<p>James Preece &#8211; The Dating Guru<\/p>\n<p>www.asiansinglesolution.com<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There comes a time in the happiest of relationships when you won&#8217;t see eye to eye. This is quite normal behaviour.\u00a0 After all, if you agreed on everything life would be very dull. However, disagreements can quickly become arguments which can escalate to major rows.\u00a0 It&#8217;s important you learn to keep things on the first [&hellip;]<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-600","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-asian-dating-advice"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/600","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=600"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/600\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":605,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/600\/revisions\/605"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=600"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=600"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=600"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}