{"id":71,"date":"2009-06-10T15:25:38","date_gmt":"2009-06-10T14:25:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/?p=71"},"modified":"2009-06-10T16:29:40","modified_gmt":"2009-06-10T15:29:40","slug":"why-you-need-to-fill-in-your-online-dating-profile-properly","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/asian-dating-advice\/why-you-need-to-fill-in-your-online-dating-profile-properly\/","title":{"rendered":"Why you need to fill in your Online Dating Profile properly"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: \"> Imagine if you clicked this blog and all you read was &#8220;I&#8217;ll come back to this later.&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 How would you feel? Perhaps disappointed and ever so slightly cheated.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>It never ceases to amaze us how often people don&#8217;t bother filling in their profile properly.\u00a0 A lot of people will write things such as &#8220;I&#8217;ll tell you Later,&#8221; &#8220;Ask Me for more Info&#8221; or &#8220;I can&#8217;t believe I&#8217;m doing this.&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 This is such a waste of time!\u00a0\u00a0 What sort of message do you thing this gives to other members?\u00a0\u00a0 Firstly, it makes you look ignorant and lazy. If you can&#8217;t be bothered to take the time to write a few things about yourself then why should anyone else be interested in getting to know you?<\/p>\n<p>Remember that your profile is there as an advert.\u00a0 If you write interesting things then you&#8217;ll give other people the chance to ask you about them. The more interesting and fun you sound then the more chance there is that they will contact you.<\/p>\n<p>Think very carefully about what you DO say. Don&#8217;t write things for the sake of it.<\/p>\n<p>As a guideline, write a few well crafted lines about yourself, followed by a couple of lines about the sort of person you are looking for. You don&#8217;t have to write an essay &#8211;\u00a0 too much is almost as bad as too little &#8211; but just enough to give everyone a snapshot of your personality.<\/p>\n<p>Very important:\u00a0 Include a &#8220;Call to Action&#8221; at the end of your profile.\u00a0\u00a0 This is a sentence that will encourage people to get in touch.\u00a0 This can be a direct statement, such as &#8220;Contact me now and let&#8217;s see if there&#8217;s a spark!&#8221;\u00a0 or &#8220;What are you waiting for?\u00a0 Email me !&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Alternatively, it can be a question.\u00a0 Good examples<\/p>\n<p>So take a few minute out of your busy lives now to write a better profile.\u00a0\u00a0 You&#8217;ll see the rewards as soon as the emails start flooding in!<\/p>\n<p>James Preece\u00a0 Dating Guru for Asiansinglesolution.com<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Imagine if you clicked this blog and all you read was &#8220;I&#8217;ll come back to this later.&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 How would you feel? Perhaps disappointed and ever so slightly cheated. It never ceases to amaze us how often people don&#8217;t bother filling in their profile properly.\u00a0 A lot of people will write things such as &#8220;I&#8217;ll tell [&hellip;]<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-71","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-asian-dating-advice"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=71"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=71"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=71"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=71"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}