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<\/p>\nAre you struggling with dating?\u00a0 Not having the success you want?<\/p>\n
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In today’s blog I’m going to motivate you to keep at it!<\/p>\n
Many people seem to give up far too easily and quickly when it comes to dating.\u00a0 Perhaps they will join an online dating site, send out some messages and then get disappointed when they don’t get many replies.\u00a0 Or maybe they’ll attend a singles event and not find anyone they like there.<\/p>\n
Rather than keep at it, they’ll think”Oh, I’ve tried that and it didn’t work.\u00a0 Now I can cross that off my list.”<\/p>\n
We know that it can sometimes seem exhausting if you don’t get get instant results but dating is a trial and error process and the more you do then the better you’ll get at it<\/p>\n
Yes, you’ll make mistakes at the start but please don’t give up.<\/p>\n
You need to keep in mind that these things really do work!\u00a0 Every day we get success stories sent to us from people who struck lucky.\u00a0 The secret is to keep at it – like most things in life you get out of it what you put into it.\u00a0 Otherwise it’s like joining a gym, going twice and then quitting because you weren’t miraculously fit and muscular.\u00a0 These things can take time.<\/p>\n
One person said to me recently that they’ve calculated they would have to send out 100 messages to get 10 replies back which would lead to one or two dates.\u00a0 They just didn’t have time to be sending out so many messages each week.<\/p>\n
My reply to him was that he was thinking about the negative side of things rather than the reality.\u00a0 What if one of the first people he met up with turned out to be his Miss Right?\u00a0\u00a0 He’d then be able to stop messaging people.\u00a0 Therefore, he should spend more time making sure he has the best profile, photos and messages possible right from the start.\u00a0 He can then be sure he’s equipping himself with the best tools for the job.<\/p>\n
The more work you put in at the start, then the quicker you’ll see the results!<\/p>\n
If you ever find yourself tempted to give up then get a friend to help you.\u00a0 Ask them to send out some messages with you or attend events with you.\u00a0 That way you’ll get a whole new perspective on things.<\/p>\n
Finally, we are here to help if you ever need motivation. All you need to do is ask.<\/p>\n
Good luck!<\/p>\n
James Preece – The Dating Guru<\/p>\n