{"id":903,"date":"2010-09-20T12:51:00","date_gmt":"2010-09-20T11:51:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/?p=903"},"modified":"2010-09-20T12:51:00","modified_gmt":"2010-09-20T11:51:00","slug":"how-to-say-goodbye","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/asian-dating-advice\/how-to-say-goodbye\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Say Goodbye"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The way you say goodbye is just as important as the way you say hello.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-905\" title=\"goodbye\" src=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/goodbye-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"goodbye\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/goodbye-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/goodbye-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.asiansinglesolution.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/goodbye.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We all know we have to work hard to make a fantastic first impression.<br \/>\nWe smile warmly, shake hands firmly and put lots of effort into showing an interest, saying<br \/>\nand doing the right things.<\/p>\n<p>But how often do you think about your last impression?<\/p>\n<p>This is the final time you&#8217;ll have contact, so you want to make sure you create long lasting<br \/>\nmemories that will stick with them long after you&#8217;ve parted.\u00a0 This is especially true when it comes to meeting other guests at singles parties. You&#8217;ll meet so many people that you&#8217;ll be starting and stopping conversations throughout the evening.<\/p>\n<p>The best thing you can do is to keep the positive feelings flowing.\u00a0 You can do this by making<br \/>\nthem feel good and paying them a small compliment.\u00a0 It&#8217;s easy &#8211; just say something along the lines of:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It was so good to talk to you, Rachel&#8221;\u00a0 or &#8220;I just loved chatting with with, John.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>If you have genuinely enjoyed meeting them and want to see them again then you need to make sure you do all you can to help this happen.<br \/>\nI&#8217;d advise you to carry business cards with you at all times.\u00a0\u00a0 These need to be professionally printed as they&#8217;ll be acting as a memento afterwards. The classier they look, then the more likely they&#8217;ll want to hang on to them.<\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t have business cards, it&#8217;s easy to get some made up for a low cost.\u00a0\u00a0 They just need to have your name, email address and phone number on them.\u00a0\u00a0 The perfect finishing touch is a great photo so they&#8217;ll remember who you are.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s nothing wrong with making a provisional plan to meet again there and then.\u00a0\u00a0 You can say:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What steps do we have to take to talk again?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>This give them the chance to suggest a date or to exchange numbers. If they give you their own cards or details, then call them up the very next. There&#8217;s little point in hanging around trying not to seem too keen.<\/p>\n<p>Always at least attempt to politely exchange contact details.\u00a0 You won&#8217;t have lost anything as there won&#8217;t be any way of contacting them afterwards anyway!<\/p>\n<p>Even it you have no intention of chatting again, there&#8217;s no harm in sending them away in a good mood.\u00a0 They&#8217;ll be more encourage to go up and approach other people that way.<\/p>\n<p>Good luck!<\/p>\n<p>James Preece &#8211; The Dating Guru<\/p>\n<p>www.asiansinglesolution.com<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The way you say goodbye is just as important as the way you say hello. We all know we have to work hard to make a fantastic first impression. 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