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Let’s be honest — swipe fatigue is real.
Endless small talk, vanishing acts, and “vibes” that lead nowhere. If you’re over that, same here.
I’m not here to play games or collect matches. I’m here for something grounded, warm, and real — with someone who knows who they are and what they want.
By day, I navigate the chaos of IT & Telecoms. Some days I’m solving problems like a pro… other days, I’m wondering if turning it off and on again applies to life too.
Outside of work? Gym sessions, long drives, rugby, a decent flat white, and finding peace in quiet moments (bonus if there's old-school RnB playing in the background). I’m learning to lean into mindfulness more — it’s a work in progress, but it keeps me grounded.
I’m someone who believes connection should feel effortless, but never lazy. Chemistry’s important, sure — but so is consistency, kindness, and good energy.
Still believe in romance. Still believe in effort. Still believe that someone out there is looking for the same thing I am — something that feels like home, not a rollercoaster.
And hey — if we vibe, expect good banter, thoughtful chats, open doors (yep, still do that), and someone who’ll match your energy and then some.
If you’re emotionally available, ready to be seen and heard, and tired of surface-level everything — let’s make this interesting.
Let’s build something that actually matters.
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While I’m still finding my feet in the world of online dating, one thing’s clear: I’m here with intention. I’m not chasing perfection — I’m looking for something real. A connection that feels effortless but is built on mutual respect, warmth, and the kind of chemistry you don’t need to over-explain.
As for you — I’m drawn to someone who’s emotionally grounded, knows herself, and is done with half-hearted situations. Someone who can laugh at life’s madness, embrace spontaneous adventures (yes, even if it’s just a Costa run), and values presence over perfection.
If you're someone who understands that real relationships are about showing up — not just for the good days but when life tests you too — we’ll get along just fine.
And if I hold the door open, it’s not to question your independence — it’s just a reflection of mine: the kind of man I choose to be. Good manners. Kind heart. Intentional energy. Simple.
So if any of this feels like your kind of pace, say hey. I’d rather connect over conversation than compete in the swipe Olympics. 😊
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