I am in a good place in life and am looking for someone else who is too. I work for myself, I've mostly done IT delivery or lead jobs, which i do enjoy and the pay is good. I can perhaps see myself joining/founding a startup company some day.
I communicate about things openly, so i need someone who can do the same. We don't have to agree on everything or even be the same, but we do have to be honest. I like to read books on psychology and personal development and i think that reflects in how i am in a relationship.
I am looking forward to raising kids though in the next few years. So i am looking for a partner who wants the same thing.
I do yoga/meditation/mantras in the morning before work, probably 50% of days. I have been doing part-time volunteer work for Sadhguru's foundation this year. Spirituality has made a positive difference for me. I think i would struggle these days to be in a relationship with a person who is overly material or status driven or superficial. At the same time i do need a partner with a certain level of ambition. It's got to be a balance.
I don't particularly like clubs or bars anymore. Don't like to drink either. I don't closely follow football/cricket (but if there's a big game on i don't mind watching). Basically if your main profile photo is one of you in a bar with a drink in your hand then we probably are not right for each other!
I have a small set of friends, and i prefer it that way now, i have known many since childhood. I'm not interested in having a huge social circle at this stage of my life.
My interests today include.... tango dancing, yoga, meditation, spirituality, psychology, podcasts, getting fit, investing, business, career progression, self development, watching UFC, Formula 1, learning guitar, distruptive technology trends. I can equally just sit and watch a netflix series if its good.
I am currently based in Newcastle, but will not be here forever, and i can travel to most places in the UK to meet the right person.
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Below character traits are things i like in a person:
- honesty, openness, straight talking
- spiritual / open-minded outlook on life
- intelligent
Below are things i tend to avoid
- avoid people who think they know it all, and won't listen
- avoid people who make snap judgments
- avoid people with a big ego who think they are "something special"
- avoid people who are in bars/pubs all the time