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Dating Guru Profile Review: LUCKSTAR89

April 20th, 2015
Here is our latest online   profile review for you Here's a look at his current profile. Nickname: LuckyStar would be a wonderful nickname, but LuckStar doesn't mean anything. Unless there's a reason for it I'd suggest you change it. After all, people call you Lucky not Luck! Photos: You have a nice photo as your main image. I think women will respond well as you look friendly, smart and approachable.   You look fun and presentable in your album shots too so all good choices. Interesting Fact: Your Fact is OK but the "you'll have to find out" comment isn't enough. When people write it's usually because they can't think of anything more imaginative.   assasa   There's nothing particularly wrong with you profile text, but there's still room for improvement.  You've written a list of things about yourself but it's better to demonstrate exactly what you mean. For example - you say you are spontaneous so give an example about at time you were spontaneous.  You could say,  I am often spontaneous and once jumped on the first plane that was leaving the airport.  When you do this it's much more interesting than reading a long list. You've put the line in about winking for interest, but you'd get a much better success rate if you just emailed them in the first place. Winking can perhaps give the impression you can't be bothered to write a proper message. It's the people who take the time to send a short personalised message that get the results.   1234123123 Again, this is fine but it's very generic.  Who doesn't want to meet someone with a similar outlook and enjoys life?   Can you try and paint a picture that would make someone think "Yes that's me he's looking for" ? I hope this helps, James If you would like to have your profile reviewed and featured, then please email your request to [email protected] We'll pick the best one each month and get our leading Dating Expert James Preece to offer you his advice on how to make it better in this blog. Good luck! James Preece - Dating Coach

Dating Profile Review: Neat

November 18th, 2013
Here is our latest online   profile review for you Here's a look at her current profile. Photos: You have a lovely main head shot photo.   You are smiling happy and look like someone who would be fun to contact.   You also have some nice album shots too.   The museum sign shot probably isn't needed as it's not clear what it's about and you aren't that visible.  The others are great though! OK, that might well be true but it's not especially "interesting."   Almost everyone writes that they like travelling in their profile so try and think of something more imaginative.  I like the travel buddy request as it's a good way for someone to start a conversation with you, but I'd move that to the end of your "looking for" section instead. Why do you have to "guess" that you need to do something?   It's a weak wishy washy statement and makes you look like you have a hard job making decisions :) So definitely take that out and make bold, positive statements only.  Having said that, the rest of the text is good.   Men want to know you are fun and low maintenance as it makes their lives easier.  In return, you'll get more interest. You just need to expand on your interests.  For example, rather than simply listing them, you could say things like  "I'm passionate about cooking and I love to learn new recipes.  I recently made a fantastic chocolate cake and I may pass on the recipe if our first date goes well!" This starts off well but I think you really need  a clearer idea of the person you would like to meet.   Otherwise you won't know when you finally meet them.  It's good to be open minded, but it would help to list a few things that are important to you.  I'd leave out the bit about being manly and having nice biceps as it may make  decent guys think they have no chance.  You can still have this but making sure you contact guys who appear to have these traits. In fact, that's my final tip to you.  You've not contacted anyone!   You can't sit back and wait for the men to wink or contact you.   Instead, you have to send out lots of messages to men you are interested in.  That's the only way you can make this work and beat the competition :) I hope this helps, James   If you would like to have your profile reviewed and featured, then please email your request to [email protected] We'll pick the best one each month and get our leading Dating Expert James Preece to offer you his advice on how to make it better in this blog. Good luck! James Preece - Dating Coach

Dating Profile Review: Cosmopolitan

September 23rd, 2013
Due to popular request   here is another profile review Here's a look at her current profile:     Ok, this is a hard one!   You'll be pleased to hear that I think you have a pretty good profile. You look good in your photos and have clearly taken the time to write an interesting profile.  I can see you are getting a lot of interest, so something is clearly working. You also have a great username! However, you've asked me for help...so here are some suggestions: 1) You have a good selection of photos, but some of them are quite  dark/blurry when you look at your album. 2) You say you enjoy all those activities, but there is no evidence of this in your photos.  Perhaps add one or two of you taking part in them, to give the album more fun and variety. 3) You come across as a bit of a "tough cookie"    That's not necessarily a bad thing, but you could try softening it a little. At the moment you sound very strong minded and masculine. 4)  Write more about the person you'd like to meet.  It's quite generic at the moment and could apply to lots of people.   You need to write something that resonates with your Mr Right! 5) No need to write things like "If you would like to read further"  as it's just extra padding.  It's always better to focus on selling yourself rather than pointing out obvious things. Good luck! James   If you would like to have your profile reviewed and featured, then please email your request to [email protected] We'll pick the best one each month and get our leading Dating Expert James Preece to offer you his advice on how to make it better in this blog. Good luck! James Preece - Dating Coach

Dating Profile Review: SS1984

July 1st, 2013
Here is another   profile review for you Here's a look at his current profile:     Thank you for your request.  Your profile is very friendly and you definitely come across as a nice guy.   However, there are some improvements you could make. Here are a few suggestions that may help: 1) Do you have any more photos?  Just one isn't really enough.  Perhaps try a full body shot or one of you wearing something smarter.  I think you look a little embarassed in your current photo...as if you didn't really want it taken. 2) The main profile text is fine but it's quite generic.  What is special about you? 3)Ask a question or end with an invitation.  It will help women looking at it find a reason to get in touch with you. 4) You only seem to have actually contacted three people?  Online Dating is competitive so you must contact anyone that you like the look of, with a reply paid credit. That way they can read and respond.  The messages you have sent are too long so cut them down and get to the point! 5) What exactly is your job? I'd expect that most people would be a little confused by it? 6)  Finally, most of your interests are very "masculine"   You want to list some that women can have in common with you.  It's fine to talk about what you like but think of some things that a partner can identify with.  At the moment, Formula 1, Snooker and DIY are unlikely to be good matches.   I hope this helps, James   If you would like to have your profile reviewed and featured, then please email your request to [email protected] We'll pick the best one each month and get our leading Dating Expert James Preece to offer you his advice on how to make it better in this blog. Good luck! James Preece - Dating Coach