How would chat GPT introduce itself on a dating platform

We are always going on about how to introduce yourself properly when making that first move on the site. This has been the topic of many blogs and newsletters and we have written to many of our members personally with this advice. Things like

Say what you liked

Ask a short question

Don’t just say Hi, or How are you as that doesnt get a response.

We decided to ask Chat GPT to give some opening messages and were pleasantly surprised by the response.

Chat GPT is it a dating expert?

Sure, here are some opening chat suggestions on a dating site:

  1. Hi there! I couldn’t help but notice your profile and thought I’d say hello. What’s your favorite thing to do on the weekends?
  2. Hey! Your profile caught my eye, and I just had to say hi. What’s your favorite book or movie?
  3. Hi! I’m [name]. Your profile looks interesting. Have you traveled anywhere recently?
  4. Hi there! I’m [name]. I’m really impressed by your profile, and I’d love to get to know you better. What’s your favorite hobby?
  5. Hello! I’m [name]. Your profile stood out to me, and I’d like to chat and learn more about you. What’s your idea of a perfect date?

Remember, it’s important to be genuine and respectful when initiating a conversation on a dating site. Asking open-ended questions and showing a genuine interest in the person you’re chatting with can help you make a good impression and start building a connection.


What do you think? Would you feel compelled to reply to these?

My only thought would be that where it says things like, “Your profile stood out” or “I was impressed by your profile” I would suggest that you should be more specific and say what exactly stood out. Of course these are generic responses. If you can read the other person’s profile and make the comment and qusetions, person specific that is always going to work best.

3 Responses to “How would chat GPT introduce itself on a dating platform”

  1. Mina Says:

    Good advice.
    It is true that I probably will ignore a message that is generic or is just Hi how are you. Depends on the guy though. if the guy is good looking then I guess it doesnt matter what he says at least initially.

  2. Sen Says:

    Women on this site will never ever initiate a si gle message
    Being able to string a sentence together and initiate contact is beyond them

  3. admin Says:

    Sorry to hear that this is your experience. To get replies, you must firstly write an interesting and engaging message. Read their profile and ask a fun simple question that has relevance. Don’t say anything generic like How are you? You also need to have a great profile. Talk about why you are worth getting to know and ensure that you have lots of bright, smiley photos that tell your story and demonstrate examples of what life with you might be like. eg hiking, cooking, going out etc. Unfortunately, people will make a snap judgement on your photo, so ensure this is the best you can make it. We have lots of advice in our blog.

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