The Asiansinglesolution.com team
would like to wish you a very happy Holiday Season.
We hope you have a lovely break and enjoy the last few days of 2016.
The office will be closed over Christmas but we’ll still be providing support and answering emails.
James, Paul, Meera and the Team
www.asiansinglesolution.com
Our big Masquerade Ball took place on Saturday 26th November.
The event was a huge success and we’ve had lots of great feedback about it.
The party started with our classical duo playing romantic music while the guests entered. The icebreaker game went down well with prizes of sweets from our Candy Cart. Our Magician wowed the crowed and we had our casino gaming tables available to help everyone interact.
The highlight of the event was our masked speed dating which most people took part in. To finish the evening our resident DJ helped our guests get in the dancing mood.
Here are a few of the photos from the event.
We have put the rest up on our Facebook page but these will be taken down again shortly. So if you’d like a look you’ll need ot be quick!
Watch our of new of our first big events for 2017 coming shortly.
Meera
www.asiansinglesolution.com
We’d had some great feedback over the last few weeks
Here are a few of the latest emails we’ve had from our Asian members:
“I met my husband on your site 4years ago…we have been married almost 2 years now” RP
“Overall good site and recommended to friends” AS
“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single
Feed back : Excellent site thank you” SP
“I am finding this a much better site than the others. People are more receptive for sure” VJ
“Really good site” AM
“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single
Feed back : Great – thanks” SJ
“I met my husband on your site” LS
“Very Happy with the service. I’m engaged” PS
“I may have found my man….lets see…” SJ
If you have your own feedback or success that you’d like to share with us, please drop us an email to [email protected]
Happy dating!
James, Paul and Meera
We are delighted to be holding our first ever Masquerade Ball.
This will take place on Saturday 26th November at the Kensington Close Hotel.
Upon arrival, you’ll be met by our hosts and given a mask to where if you don’t wish to bring your own. We’ll have a professional photographer on hand who will capture the glitz and glamour of the evening.
We’ll then enjoy free Casino tables, optional Speed Dating and more while enjoying entertainment from our special Classical Duo, before chatting and dancing the night away with a DJ at the very special Kensington Close Hotel.
This promises to be one of the most spectacular events the Asian Single Solution has ever organised, and we’d love for as many of our members, friends and supporters to join us.
Book now HERE
We would like to wish all our wonderful members a Happy Diwali 2016 from all at AsianSingleSolution.com
Happy Diwali
Family, Friends and relationships are so important at this time of the year. Over the past 14 years SingleSolution services have brought together countless couples. It all starts with that simple online message, or ‘hello’ at one of our parties.
Get some inspiration from our recent success stories, and do not forget to tell your friends and family all about us.
Today I’m bringing back my very popular Dating Advice as I’ve had a question from a member:
“Hi James, I wonder if you can answer this problem for me as it’s really confusing me. I’m getting frustrated because I only seem to get contacted by men who are nothing like I’m looking for. They are either too old, too far away or generally not suitable. How can I stop this and get the good ones to get in touch? M”
Hey M,
Thanks for your message. I completely understand what you mean. However, it’s not working simply because your strategy is wrong. These men won’t always know if you are a good match or not until you’ve spoken, so they are just taking their chances. You can’t really blame them, although they should really pay more attention and consider if you might really be compatible or not.
The thing is, it doesn’t really matter who contacts you. Instead, it’s all about you being proactive and reaching out to the men that you are interested in instead. That way you are in control and not sat around waiting for the “online dating lottery” to get your numbers up.
It’s a bit like applying for a job. If you wanted to get the position of your dreams, you’d write a great CV and make sure it went out to the right companies. You wouldn’t just see which random companies decide to contact you and hope for the best.
I’d suggest you email at least five men a day. It may sound a lot but once you start to get replies back then you can cut down. Be open minded and you never know what might happen.
Finally, it would be best to make sure you fill your online dating profile in as much as possible. Don’t be negative and talk about what you don’t want in a partner, but focus on the things that yuo really do. That way someone reading it can make a better decision about whether they really should contact you or not.
Do you have own dating dilemma or relationship issue that you’d like some help with? I’m a leading Dating Coach and I work with the Asian Single Solution to make sure their members are successful in love. Email me at [email protected] and I’ll answer some of the best ones here in this blog..anonymously of course!
Happy dating,
James Preece
The Dating Guru
Thank you to everyone who came to our big 14th Birthday Party!
Our event was a complete sell out and from all accounts lots of fun and matches were made. We pulled out all the stops for the event and had a magician, chocolate fountain, DJ and for the first time ever – casino tables.
We don’t run our events for profit but as a showcase for the website, so we usually spend all the money made on making them the best we can. So if you liked anything in particular please do add a comment and let us know. That way we know to include it next time.
Thanks again for celebrating with us and we are looking forward to planning the next exciting events. Next year will be the big 15 so we’ll be coming up with something even more special for you to enjoy.
Happy dating,
James, Paul, Meera and the team
www.asiansinglesolution.com
We’re delighted to announce our big Birthday Party is now for booking
We are running a very special Birthday Celebration and we’d love to see you there!
This will take place at Revolution in London on Saturday 24th September.
We are doing our best to ensure this will be the biggest, best party we’ve ever had so we are pulling out all the stops. We’ve got lots of entertainment planned for you including:
Fun Casino Gaming Tables
Chocolate Fountain
Optional Speed Dating
Extra Hosts
DJ
You can find out more about the party on the website.
If you’ve already got your ticket then we look forward to seeing you then. If not, do be quick as we expect them to sell out FAST.
See you there,
James, Paul and Meera
We’d had some great feedback over the last few weeks
Here are a few of the latest emails we’ve had from our Asian members:
” I met some nice people!” SG
“Very Happy with the service. Found someone” AN
“Good site, met someone lovely off it” RP
“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single
Feed back : good website” SP
“ASS worked brilliantly. We got married!!!” HM
” It was a good experience” GD
“Found a match with the site and looking to get engaged in October with a view for wedding in Easter of next year” HP
If you have your own feedback or success that you’d like to share with us, please drop us an email to [email protected]
Happy dating!
James, Paul and Meera
If you are finding the dating game difficult, then it’s quite understandable that you might be getting confused.
I know that everyone has different problems and finding dates can take a little while. This important this is that you don’t ever feel stuck. You have to be able to keep moving forward so you ultimately end up with what you want. So we are here to help you on your journey and you don’t have to do it all on your own!
What I’d love you to do it tell me exactly what problem you are having right now.
Perhaps you aren’t sure what to write in your profile or how to get replies. Or maybe you are getting lots of interest but it fizzles out. Whatever it might be it usually something that can be resolved quickly.
I’ve been a Dating Coach for ten years now and I’ve helped bring 10000s of couples together. I’m an authority in the dating world and highly respected.
I’ll do my best to answer each and every issue, with my dating expert advice to help you make dramatic improvements.
You can either reach me at [email protected] or you can add an (anonymous if you prefer) comment to this blog.
Don’t put you life on hold any longer – take action now and you might just starting people and getting more dates than ever before!
Here is the latest question for our Dating Coach
Hindu Girl
“Hi James, I want to build up my confidence and increase the amount of women that I talk to. So I’ve been out in the shops trying to say hello to women I’m attracted to.
At the moment I either ask for directions or pay them a compliment…but I’m just not seeing enough that I really like. Are these big enough challenges or should I being trying something else? I know you are a dating coach so I hope you can help! M”
Hi M,
Thanks for the message. I’ll see how I can help.
First of all, well done for taking the first steps and actually going out into the real world approaching women. Most men are far to scared of rejection to do this, so you already have the advantage on your competition.
Your challenges are a great start but there are a few things you could do to improve.
Firstly, you shouldn’t just be approaching the hot girls but ALL women in the right age category. The more you flirt and talk to women in general then the better you’ll get and the more natural you’ll find it. If you do it right you’ll make them feel good about themselves and set them on the way to having a better day.
However shouldn’t be complimenting them on their looks/clothes all the time either. That’s just creepy. When they give you directions, tell them they are obviously well travelled or intelligent. The ladies will appreciate that much more than anything superficial.
Questions in general are better than directions as you have more chance of continuing the conversation. You want to ask something interesting that will get them to open up.
So these sort of questions can work well:
“Excuse me, I’m buying a shirt for my brother. Which of these do you like the best? ”
“What sort of vegetable goes well with chicken curry?” ( In a supermarket)
I’m not sure if I need to tell you but make sure you always dress well when you are out and about. A suit works well. You want to look like the sort of person they would love to date. Then make them smile and you’ll have much more success.
Hope that helps and good luck!
Best Wishes,
James
The Dating Guru
If you have your own dating question or dilemma, please send it over to [email protected] James will answer the best ones here in the blog.
We’ve introduced a brand new “Matches” feature which is currently exclusive to our mobile site.
We hope this will give you a fun user experience and increase your success.
Each day, when you first log in from your phone, you’ll be presented with a selection of up to 6 profiles. With each one you will see a photo, age, religion and location.
You can either accept as Yes/Maybe or reject them with one click. If you want to see more you can view profile. We recommend that if you like someone then you also start messaging them right away.
To see who you have liked go to Favourites and to see who likes you go to Who Likes Me. We have now also set up a separate tab so you can see your Mutual likes straight away.
To jump back in, go to the homepage on the mobile site.
Have fun, and let us know how you get on.
We are delighted to announce that once again, we will be sponsoring the Bagri Foundation London Indian Film Festival.
Now in it’s 7th year, the festival showcases some of the most prestigious and though provoking movies from the Indian subcontinent. This year, it will be held
from the 14th to the 24th July.
It’s such a great opportunity to be able to support this festival. Many of our members love cinema and it’s a wonderful way to celebrate the best of Indian culture and filmmaking. If you get the chance then do check out some of the films.
Our lead film will be “Jugni” starring
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About Jugni (12a)
Travelling through the verdant fields of Punjab, Vibhavari (Vibs) is a gorgeous, young composer from Mumbai. She is in search of Bibi Saroop, the voice that she believes will be the saviour of her new score. She bumps into Bibi’s dashing son Mastana who has a stunning voice. Vibs records Mastana’s renditions of Punjabi folk songs and the duo soon fall for each other. Vibs returns to a soured relationship with her boyfriend in Mumbai. Mastana is left brokenhearted, but his voice is indeed the magical ingredient of the score, which becomes an instant hit. When Vibs calls Mastana to the big city he is full of hope, but they are forced to make tough choices between their careers and their hearts.
Supported by AsianSingleSolution.com
| 5 JULY | 19:00 | CINEWORLD WEMBLEY | ||
| 16 JULY | 18:00 | CINEWORLD HAYMARKET | ||
| 17 JULY | 20:00 | CINEWORLD O2 |
We’d had some great feedback over the last few weeks
Here are a few of the latest emails we’ve had from our Asian members:
” I messaged someone on your site in mid Feb & after talking on the phone we met & on the 3rd meeting we really connected. We have now moved in together & will see how things go” AS
” I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single
Feed back : I found someone on this website!” BB
“It gave me more confidence and realised how easy it is” NC
“Good site, nice idea” JS
“Thanks for your help! Got married last year.” KS
“Good website, reliable mobile site. Best site for dating Asian girls. I’ve enjoyed using the site over last 5+ years” KP
“I met someone at one of your events, and am no longer single!” RJ
If you have your own feedback or success that you’d like to share with us, please drop us an email to [email protected]
Happy dating!
James, Paul and Meera
My name is Claire and I am a producer at a Television Production company called Electric Ray, we are currently making a new BBC1 show called Second Chance Salon, following people who are about to experience a huge turning point in their life. For example it could be someone getting married after overcoming a health issue, a person preparing for a crucial job interview or a single dad going on a first date – anything that is of huge significance to them personally.
To tell you a bit about it – We want to help people feel confident and ready to take on a life changing moment by inviting them into our purpose-built salon. Here they will meet people going through similar experiences and receive a full, free makeover. Our aim is for each person to leave the salon feeling like the best version of themselves. We want to show how a positive transformation in someone’s outward appearance can have an incredible impact on their emotional wellbeing. As each person undergoes a physical transformation before our eyes – via conversations with the stylists – we’ll learn more about their life story and why they are in need of a helping hand. We’ll then follow each person out of the salon and into the real world as they take on their date with destiny – a heart-warming and emotional payoff at the end of the show.
This isn’t a ‘makeover show’ in the familiar sense but a documentary series in the style of First Dates and 24 Hours in A&E. The salon environment and makeover process gives us an engaging way of telling powerful human stories.
To find out a bit more, all you have to do is email [email protected] or call them
on 0207 061 8614 . They can answer any questions ahead of our starting filming in late July/early August.
Have you seen our very special event?
Asian dating
We are delighted to teaming up with Bombay Funkadelic to offer you our latest party.
Bombay Funkadelic have been running very successful Bollywood nights for several years now. Each attracts a large crowd in a fun, relaxed event.
We’ll start with our usual dating party between 7.30pm and 10pm which includes our legendary hosts, optional speed dating and icebreaking. Then from 10pm the Bollywood party with DJ Shai Guy will begin.
The best news is that if you book our dating event then you’ll be able to stay on for the after party with no extra cost. This means you’ll get the chance to meet an extra of new people later in the evening.
We’ve got a brand new venue for this one – Mary Janes. Located near the famous Tower of London and Tower Bridge, this fantastic 350 capacity venue boasts a state of the art sound system and lighting – the perfect place to party. There are lots of different zones so you can chat to each other.
Limited tickets available by booking here
We’d had some great feedback over the last few weeks
Here are a few of the latest emails we’ve had from our Asian members:
“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single
I’m married now” GS
“Hi ,I’ve been wanting to contact in regards to tell you that you have another success story as me and my husband meet on your site in September 2013 and have recently got married on 14th February 2016. We wanted to share our story and good news with you.”
“Very Happy with the service
Feedback : hi – I have met the love of my life”
“It’s a great user-friendly website” RR
“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single
Feed back : Good site” BB
“It worked. it actually worked :-)” AJ
“Customer service is good” NN
“I met someone on this site and seeing how things go.” RS
If you have your own feedback or success that you’d like to share with us, please drop us an email to [email protected]
Happy dating!
James, Paul and Meera
Dating Rule Two
Love doesn’t just happen on dating sites. Cupid’s arrow can hit you any time, any place and anywhere.
You walk by thousands of people every single day and interact with new ones all the time. Perhaps it’s in the supermarket, on the train, at the gym or even at work. You see them look at you and you have the opportunity to start a conversation. It’s now or never – you have to make a great impression and you have to do make it now.
But sadly, so many people blow this chance before it’s even begun! Why? Because they just weren’t ready. They didn’t bother shaving that day or they chose to wear a baggy jumper rather than that summery dress they were thinking about. They failed before they even left the house. To make matters worse, they knew they didn’t look their best so they didn’t feel confident enough to go up and say hello anyway.
The truth is that you have to be ready for love at all times. Pick your best outfit that you feel most attractive and confident in. That way, you’ll naturally feel more attractive and confident in your own life.
Oh and please remember to smile too and give lots of eye contact. That’s the biggest indication other people will that that you are a happy, open minded person who would appreciate someone saying hello to them. If you smile then they will know you are up for a conversation and want to get to know you.
Happy dating!
James
I do hope this short article has helped you see what you need to do to make a huge difference. Watch out for the next dating rule coming next week!
If you would like to work with me as your dating coach then you can contact me through my personal website HERE
Hi there! I’ve been helping singles find love for the last decade and today I’m going to tell you all about my first Golden Rule:
This might sound obvious but I never cease to be amazed how many people forget to even consider this. If you don’t know who are you looking for then you’re never going to know when you find them.
Let’s suppose you want to get a new job. Would you apply for every single vacancy no matter what is was for and attend every interview you were offered? Of course you wouldn’t. That would just be a colossal waste of time and you’d never find a position that you were happy with.
Dating is exactly the same. Before you begin, you have to work out what is important to you. Who exactly is it that you are looking for and what do you want from them. If you want to find a husband or wife you need to be clear about your goal right from the start.
So have a good think now about what the person you’d like end up with might be like. Consider their qualities, lifestyle and personality. Is there anything especially important such as religion, smoking habits or location? If so, keep these in mind along the way.
I’m not suggesting that you should ever stop being open minded about what might happen. I’m just saying that you should always have something in mind to aim for.
After all, what you think you want and what you really need can often be completely different things. The fun comes with the adventure ahead and trying new possibilities and meeting new people
Happy dating!
I do hope this short article has helped you see what you need to do to make a huge difference. Watch out for the next dating rule coming next week!
If you would like to work with me as your dating coach then you can contact me through my personal website HERE
Messing around
This week I answer a question from a very confused female member.
“Dear James, I was dating someone from the site at the start of the year. He’s a solicitor and very handsome. Things were going well but I think I came over a bit too keen and scared him away. We’re just friends now but were still in regular contact. I really liked him and miss him a lot, so I’ve been hopeful we can resolve things and get back together. However, I recently asked him if he’d like to go for a drink and he said he’d love to. However, the problem is that he keeps cancelling and letting me down at the minute. He’s really busy and has so much going on. He does keep promising he wants to see me but now he’s been quiet for a week. Is he really interested or not? T”
Hi T,
Thanks for your message. I’m sorry things didn’t work out this time around.
One of the problems at the start of a new relationship is that you will both be at different stages. One will be more “into” the relationship than the other, although things do eventually balance out once you’ve been seeing each other for a while. If you are a bit too needy, clingy or questioning then it can be all too easy for the other person to get nervous and bail out. Rather than have a confrontation or discussion about the issue, it’s easier to just end things and move on.
Perhaps he is just busy. Things do get in the way after all. But I strongly suspect he’s just trying to let you down gently. I don’t want to sugar coat it, so I have to say that if he really really wanted to see you then he’d make time for you. How hard is it to find an hour for a drink? I think he’s fully aware that you want to get back together but it’s not something he’s ready for…at least not at the moment. So he’s fobbing you off and avoiding you rather than telling you the truth.
The very best thing you can now is to get on with your life and stop hoping he’ll get in touch. Carry on dating other men and make sure you have a full diary with lots of exciting activities. If he does contact you then great, but at least you’ll have lots of other options. I tend to find the more fun and exciting your life is then the more other people will want to be part of it.
So do get back on the site and fingers crossed you meet someone even more wonderful!
James
If you have your own dating dilemma that you’d like help with, send it over to [email protected] Our resident Dating Coach James Preece will answer the best questions here in the blog. Don’t worry, they always completely anonymous so nobody will ever know it was you!
Happy dating
James Preece
www.asiansinglesolution.com
We recently had our big Spring Singles party in London.
This event attracted a big crowd and lots of people paired up during the event.
We tried out some new activities at this one, including a games room. This provided a fun, relaxed icebreaker that allowed our singles to meet each other and chat while playing some quick board games.
Our guests also took part in optional speed dating which is always popular. To round off the evening our resident DJ Titch took to the decks to make sure everyone was in the party spirit.
Feedback from the event has been really good and we are looking forward to planning our next parties.
Please do tell your friends about us so we can continue to keep bringing you new events and opportunities.
Best Wishes,
James, Paul and Meera
www.asiansinglesolution.com
We’d had some great feedback over the last few weeks
Here are a few of the latest emails we’ve had from our Asian members:
“Very Happy with the service. Feed back : I have met someone.” PP
“I’ve finally found my soul mate on this web site. It took a while to find her, but it was worth the membership fees I paid. The people who run this web site do a good job for asian singles.” MJ
“Thanks to your site ive now met someone ;-)” DD
“Easy to use website” AN
“Thank you for the help. I met someone at Saturdays event” JS
“I really liked the venue, great choice for a saturday night, had a wedding reception feel. much better than the other venues. Had a hoot!” AM
“Much better than other Asian Dating Sites” PN
“Great way to meet other people. Easy to use.” CM
“I have met someone from the site” BY
“Awesome site helps everyone” RH
If you have your own feedback or success that you’d like to share with us, please drop us an email to [email protected]
Happy dating!
James, Paul and Meera
Today is International Women’s Day – the one time of the year that celebrated the wonderful achievements of women all over the world.
We are very proud of our single female members on the site. There are so many inspiring women with lots of exciting, adventurous lives.
Enjoy your day and use it as a chance to reflect on everything you’ve done with your life so far.
The Asian Single Solution Team
Dear all,
today we have made some changes to our messaging system.
You will see that all mail is now presented in a more user friendly chat style. This means that all desktop and mobile users can be online and receive chat messages.
You will also receive online notifications for new winks and messages in addition to emails. You can stop these if you select “appear offline” but we would not recommend that you do this.
The old function “turn off chat” is no longer valid. The equivalent function “appear offline” is new so we have set to on by default. You can switch off from your profile. This is a Premium feature.
If you experience any issues, or have any thoughts on these changes please let us know.
Please send all feedback to [email protected]
Our Birmingham Events Manager, Tabs is about to leave us to get married and move overseas.
She’s run some wonderful Hindu and Sikh singles parties for us over the last few years so we’re sad to see her go.
As she’s leaving, we’re now looking for someone to help us grow the Birmingham events. We’d like to get someone who can help us make them bigger, better and even more successful.
It’s not a full time role, just as and when needed so you can fit it around your normal job. The position would require someone to:
1) Source suitable venues
2) Host the events and find suitable staff
3) Promote the events locally
4) Think up new activities, events and icebreakers
If you are interested, please drop us an email to discuss with the subject “Birmingham”
We’d love to hear from you!
James
Events Manager and Dating Coach
Our Asian Hindu and Sikh Valentines party took place last Saturday and was a massive success.
With over 300 guests, it was a complete sell out and countless matches were made.
Our resident dancers, Bollywood Vibes went down a storm late in the evening too, while our DJ Titch got the crowd on their feet.
We’ve already had some great feedback about the event, some verbally and some by email:
“I really liked the venue, great choice for a Saturday night, had a wedding reception feel. much better than the other venues. Had a hoot!”
If you missed out, don’t worry as we are planning some other huge events this year.
Happy dating!
James
We’d had some great feedback over the last few weeks
Here are a few of the latest emails we’ve had from our Asian members:
“I just would like to say a massive thank you!!! without this site i wouldnt have found the love of my life!!! Thank you!” AP
“Very Happy with the service Feed back : Found someone” KM
“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single
Feed back : She found me, we’ve got a long way to go, but I don’t need your services any more.
Thank you!” GP
“The nights were very well organised” NB
“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single
Feed back : Excellent. thank you” JM
“Was a good experience and thank you for your help.” BK
” I attended the singles event last night at The Abbey. I have to say it was one of the best events. Katie the host was brilliant and helpful. The age group was perfect and nice to see everyone participating. James and Vik great night. Let me know when the next event is. Even though I didn’t meet anyone. It was still a great event to attend and meet new people.” JP
If you have your own feedback or success that you’d like to share with us, please drop us an email to [email protected]
Happy dating!
James, Paul and Meera
Our Valentine’s parties are the biggest and best events of the year…and this year is no exception!
We have two massive parties coming up for you:
Sat 6th Feb – Birmingham – Broadway Casino
Sat 13th Feb – Lond0n – Kensington Close Hotel
We strongly suggest you book your tickets as soon as possible as they are very likely to sell out. Check out the event pages on our site to find out what we have planned at each event, but they will both have a DJ, optional Speed Dating, great hosts and icebreaking activities.
If you come then hopefully you won’t be single for much longer. It’s your best opportunity of the year to find love!
www.asiansinglesolution.com
Thank you to everyone that entered our “2015 Quiz of the Year”
We have lots of entries and the winners have now been selected and notified.
The star prize winner of £100 was Sharon Jatti
The correct answers were:
Here’s to 2016!
Best Wishes,
Meera
www.asiansinglesolution.com
