At the start of the new year, everyone likes to make a fresh start. It’s when we decide we’ll start taking action and do something dramatic to achieve one particular goal in life.
For some, this might be to lose weight. For others it could be to find a new job or quit smoking. However, lots of people will also want to meet their perfect partner. I’m guessing that’s why you are reading this blog on our site in the first place. The good news is that you’ve come to the right place as we can definitely provide you with the tools to help you. It’s now just a case of you keeping things going and making a start.
Here are some quick suggestions to help you on your way:
State your Intentions
First of all, let all your friends and family know you are looking for a partner. Write it on social media and let the world know what you are up to. Put a note on your fridge about the person you are going to meet. That way you are making a declaration that you are finally doing this. Your support circle will be able to help and keep you motivated. More that anything, you’ll become accountable.
Perfect Your Profile
The next thing you must do is get your online dating profile ready. Update it with new content and recent photos. Make sure it’s the best advert for you and that you are going to stand out from the competition. Your profile is there to attract new people to you even when you aren’t logged in, so make it count.
Book an Event
If you want to be successful, you are going to have to leave the house. Do everything possible to get yourself in a position where you’ll meet new people. We run lots of very popular events that will provide you with this opportunity. Book one now and you are going to dramatically boost your chances. Tell your friends but don’t worry if you come on your own as we have wonderful friendly hosts to look after you.
Get on some Dates
Do go out on dates, even if you aren’t completely sure about them. If there is even a glimmer of interest then spend an hour or so with them over coffee. There’s nothing to lose and the more dates you go on then the better you’ll become. You won’t be nervous anymore.
Keep Going
Nothing worth getting is ever going to be easy. You’ll experience knock-backs along the way but you have to keep up the momentum. You won’t like everyone you meet but all it takes is one person. Don’t give up before you even start as it can take several months to get what you truly desire.
So what are you waiting for? You owe it to yourself to start taking action. Once you do, you’ll be so happy that you got started. You’ll be that little bit closer to a happy, fulfilling relationship.
Happy dating and good luck!
James Preece
Dating Coach for Asiansinglesolution.com