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Archive for March, 2013



Dating Profile Review: Nelly0285

Tuesday, March 26th, 2013

Here is another free Profile Review

from our Dating Guru

Here’s a look at your current profile:

 

My first thoughts are that while you have a great photo, the second photo looks even better.  Try and change it and see what happens.

More importantly,  you really need to write more about yourself.

Most of the things you write could be said by 99% our members.  Would anyone describe themselves as dishonest or that they can’t stand their friends or family?  It’s just too generic.

Talk about what makes you special and why you are different from everyone else on the site.  What else do you like to do in your spare time?  What are you passionate about?  Is there anywhere you would like to visit?
You’ve also duplicated the section about the type of person you want to meet.  I’d suggest you take that out of the first section and then spend a little more time describing the person you wish to date.

It’s good that you add on an invitation as it gives everyone a reason to contact you.

 

If you would like to have your profile reviewed and featured, then please email your request to [email protected] We’ll pick the best one each month and get our leading Dating Expert James Preece to offer you his advice on how to make it better.

Good luck!

James Preece – the Dating Guru

Our February Feedback

Monday, March 18th, 2013

February was a great month

and here are some feedbacks:

“Very impressed with what you offer”  JG

” I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single Feed back : Good website and easy to use.” MA

” The service was great thank you. ” AM

“Great website, thank you. Met someone who is perfect ” HG

“Good service and good events ”  AM

” Brilliant services ” PC

” I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single. Feed back : very good thanks ” MT

“Good service with a large population and many of them active and decent. ” SK

“A great service, would highly recommend. ” DR

“I have met someone through your site that has the potential to hopefully become serious. So jumping off the site for now to see where it leads! ” JJ

” I met someone at one of your events, and am no longer single. Feed back : Very good. I enjoyed it ”  PD

If you have your own please do share it with us: [email protected]

 

Best Wishes,

James Preece – The Dating Guru

 

Dating Profile Review – MrValentino

Monday, March 11th, 2013

Here is our first free Profile Review

from our very own Dating Guru

Here’s a look at your current profile:

 

Ok, I’ll start with some good news for you – your profile is actually pretty good!  You’ve clearly spent time putting it together and making it sound interesting.  You are also proving popular on the site which is great.   However, there are few tips I can suggest that may improve your chances even further:

1) Smiling Photos.  You mention that you do smile but your photos look so very glum and serious.  They are fine for album shots, but you’ll get more interest if you add a few happier shots.

2) Don’t say you look young for your age, but let others make their own mind up.  There’s not a day that goes by without someone telling me they don’t look their age.

3) Everyone says they like staying in or going out, so try and describe this in a littl more details. It stops it being too generic.

4) Explain a little more about your job as not everyone will understand that it is that you do.

5) Get rid of the last line “Arrogant, high maintenance and pretentious women may need not apply! ”      I understand why you put this but it makes you sound very negative and might put a suitable partner off contacting you.  It’s better to try and remain friendly and positive at all times.

Other than that you’ve got a great profile, so stay proactive and contact lots of people and you’ll reap the results.

If you would like to have your profile reviewed and featured, then please email your request to [email protected]      We’ll pick the best one each month and get our leading Dating Expert James Preece to offer you his advice on how to make it better.

Good luck!

James Preece – the Dating Guru

Why did they dump me?

Monday, March 4th, 2013

Being dumped is never easy

Especially if they don’t tell you why

A break up is always a period of disappointment, frustration, annoyance and sadness.  This can be made worse if you weren’t expecting it and they won’t talk to you about it.  There could be many reasons why they ended it – the most common of which I’m going to explain here in this blog.

1) They just aren’t ready to commit or give you want you want. This is one of the most common causes for a break up. If you don’t want to settle down yet then you aren’t giving them any “emotional security.” You are preventing them from getting what they want in their lives and this will result in you getting dumped.

2) They don’t trust you. Perhaps they’ve caught you lying or cheating one two many times. There comes a point when enough simply has to be enough. If the issue is with them then there isn’t much you can do if you aren’t to blame.

3) They thought you were trying to change them. If you are too critical and constantly nagging them to do things then it’s natural for them to assume you think they aren’t good enough for you.

4) The know deep down that you aren’t “the one.”  If the chemistry and passion are no longer there then it’s kinder to end it. Otherwise the end result will be inevitable.

5) You aren’t treating them right. Love is a two way thing and if you make them unhappy then there is no chance of a future. So always be respectful and show them how much you mean to them while you are dating to stop this break up reason happening.

 

 

The best way to get over a break up is to start dating again. It won’t be easy, but once you do you’ll begin to realise there ARE other people out there that will result in a much better relationship.

Good luck!

James Preece

The Dating Guru