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Archive for October, 2016



Diwali 2016

Sunday, October 30th, 2016

We would like to wish all our wonderful members a Happy Diwali 2016 from all at AsianSingleSolution.com

Happy Diwali

 

Family, Friends and relationships are so important at this time of the year. Over the past 14 years SingleSolution services have brought together countless couples. It all starts with that simple online message, or ‘hello’ at one of our parties.

Get some inspiration from our recent success stories, and do not forget to tell your friends and family all about us.

 

 

Dating Problem Solved: Why do the Wrong Men contact me?

Tuesday, October 18th, 2016

Today I’m bringing back my very popular Dating Advice as I’ve had a question from a member:

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“Hi James, I wonder if you can answer this problem for me as it’s really confusing me.  I’m getting frustrated because I only seem to get contacted by men who are nothing like I’m looking for. They are either too old, too far away or generally not suitable.  How can I stop this and get the good ones to get in touch?  M”

Hey M,

Thanks for your message.  I completely understand what you mean.  However, it’s not working simply because your strategy is wrong. These men won’t always know if you are a good match or not until you’ve spoken, so they are just taking their chances.  You can’t really blame them, although they should really pay more attention and consider if you might really be compatible or not.

The thing is, it doesn’t really matter who contacts you.  Instead, it’s all about you being proactive and reaching out to the men that you are interested in instead.  That way you are in control and not sat around waiting for the “online dating lottery” to get your numbers up.

It’s a bit like applying for a job. If you wanted to get the position of your dreams, you’d write a great CV and make sure it went out to the right companies.  You wouldn’t just see which random companies decide to contact you and hope for the best.

I’d suggest you email at least five men a day. It may sound a lot but once you start to get replies back then you can cut down. Be open minded and you never know what might happen.

Finally, it would be best to make sure you fill your online dating profile in as much as possible.  Don’t be negative and talk about what you don’t want in a partner, but focus on the things that yuo really do.  That way someone reading it can make a better decision about whether they really should contact you or not.

 

Do you have own dating dilemma or relationship issue that you’d like some help with?  I’m a leading Dating Coach and I work with the Asian Single Solution to make sure their members are successful in love.  Email me at [email protected] and I’ll answer some of the best ones here in this blog..anonymously of course!

 

Happy dating,
James Preece

The Dating Guru