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Win £100 with our Fun Quiz

Wednesday, December 23rd, 2015

We would like to wish all our wonderful members an extremely happy holiday season and a wonderful 2016

2015 has been an amazing year for our members, with many success


To celebrate some of the 2015 highlights, we’ve put together a fun quiz on our Facebook page.

First prize is a £100 Amazon voucher and we
have 5 one month memberships as runner up prizes.

To enter, all you have to do is like our page and answer the easy

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Have a very happy Holiday Season and a successful New Year.

From all at AsianSingleSolution





Recent Feedback

Monday, December 7th, 2015

We’d had some great feedback recently


Here are a few of the latest emails we’ve had from our Asian members:

“I have found my partner at one of your events and no longer need the service. Muchos gracias!” DB

“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single
Feed back : Very good site!!” TG

“Good platform to meet people” KV

“I think You’re doing a fantastic job, well done!” RP

“I can say you all work really hard and offer a very good service. Wishing you all the very best.” BB

“He seems a great match, I thought I would never meet anyone online but this guy took me by storm and we are dating…………………………….

Thank you Asian Single Solution! SG

“I have met someone via this service and so far so good!” MK

“Very Happy with the service. Feedback : Found my partner” HJ


If you have your own feedback or success that you’d like to share with us, please drop us an email to [email protected]


Happy dating!

James, Paul and Meera

Asian Single Solution is a Finalist For Best Niche Dating Site

Wednesday, November 18th, 2015

We have some very exciting news this week.

Best niche dating site

Best niche dating site

We are delighted to be able to tell you that has been voted as a finalist for Best Niche Dating Site at the UK Dating Awards.

The awards celebrate the very best of the UK Dating industry it’s a real honour to be selected for this.

There are great contenders in this category so please keep your fingers crossed!  The event takes place next week at the exclusive Honourable Artillery Company in London.

Our very own James Preece is also a finalist for Dating Expert of the Year which is also fantastic news.

Wish us luck!

The Asian Single Solution Team

Happy Diwali!

Wednesday, November 11th, 2015



We would like to wish all our members a very Happy Diwali!


James, Paul, Meera and the team

Halloween Party was a Scream

Monday, November 9th, 2015

Big thanks to everyone who came to our Halloween Spooktacular

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This took place on Saturday 31st October – Halloween itself – at the revamped Slug and Lettuce.

Over 160 guests attended with some in costume.  You can see some of the best outfits in our photo so thanks to those who made an effort.

We’ve already had lots of great feedback and many people appreciated our efforts to do something special.   Lots of matches were made, and many couples were dancing once we hit the wtiching hour.

We’ll be planning something event bigger and more spooktacular for next year.
Best Wishes,

The Asian Single Solution Team

Book our Halloween Spooktacular Singles Party

Tuesday, October 20th, 2015

Attention all boys and ghouls!  Our big Halloween event is just over a week away

Halloween Logo

These parties are always one of our most fun and popular and they give us the chance to use our favourite puns!

We decorate the venue and make sure we have lots of activities to get you mingling.

This year our event actually falls on the 31st October, so it’s your chance to come along and celebrate with us.  We expect lots of new faces to round up your single friends and you never know who you might meet.

As always, we have the usual activities such as optional speed dating, icebreaking and the best hosts in the business to introduce you.  We’ve also got a guest appearance from our resident DJ Titch to play the spookiest dance fillers.

Fancy dress is completely optional, but we have prizes for the best costumes!

Do book now.  We can guarantee it will be a Scream.

The Asian Single Solution team.

Our Golden Rules for using the Site

Wednesday, October 14th, 2015

We’ve put together some golden rules that we ask all our members to follow and respect if you are using the site.

They are important because if everyone follows them then you will all have a much better experience and success rate on the site.




Please do follow these rules.  If you don’t then your profile may be suspended.

Happy dating!

The Asian Single Solution Team

September Feedback

Wednesday, October 7th, 2015

We’d had some great feedback over the last month


Here are a few of the latest emails we’ve had from our Asian members:

“Very Happy with the service. I have met someone” SS

“We met on Asian single solution and have recommended it to all our friends” TP

” I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single” RV

“Very Happy with the service
Feed back : Engaged” KP

“Thank-you for organizing a great event last Saturday” JM

“Staff are Friendly welcoming people. Polite and helpful” KV

“Great way of finding someone special. Holding great events..” SG

“Thanks the party was great!” SP

“The website was very good as I managed to find someone on there” MP


If you have your own feedback or success that you’d like to share with us, please drop us an email to [email protected]


Happy dating!

James, Paul and Meera

How to Bookmark our Asian Single Solution Mobile site

Thursday, September 24th, 2015

Did you know that we have fully functional mobile version of our online dating site?

It’s very simple and fun to use and you can set it up on your phone in a similar way to a mobile app.

To do this, you just have to save a bookmark.   Follow these easy steps and you can get this done in no time:

Visit   on your mobile photo

If you have an IPHONE

Click on the box with the arrow to open up your menu. Then select Add to Home Screen. This will add an icon and link to your home screen like any other Application.

Open Menu  Click Add to Homepage to add the icon and link to your screen

Click Add to Homepage to add the icon and link to your screen

If you have an ANDROID PHONE

Click the dots in the top right hand corner.  Press to Arrow at the top and then Press Save

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Once you have done this you’ll be able to use the site at any time you wish.  We hope you have fun and enjoying using it!

The Asian Single Solution team

August Feedback and Success Stories

Monday, September 21st, 2015

We’d had some great feedback over the last few months.


Here are a few of the latest emails we’ve had from our Asian members:

” I managed to meet somebody at your event and it looks really promising!” SP

“Finally met someone amazing!” KK

“Felt very open, easy to talk to people, good venue. Good location, Plenty of room to mingle” VP

“Found a new partner” PS

“Great site. May return again in the future.” AS

“Excellent site” PL

“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single
Feed back : thank you” MS

“I enjoyed using the website it was very easy to use” SP

“I found someone, thank you for your help” AC

” I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single
Feed back : Thank you for your help.” HS

“I married the person I met on the site.” NK


If you have your own feedback or success that you’d like to share with us, please drop us an email to [email protected]


Happy dating!

James, Paul and Meera

Our latest Asian Wedding

Wednesday, September 2nd, 2015

We were delighted to hear about another Asian Single Solution wedding.

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Namvir & Dal met on our site in 2014 and got married in June 2015

Namvir had been looking for her dream man for nine years and had been on our site for four of them.  She’d almost given up looking but decided to give it one more go.  When she reached out to Dal she was delighted that he was also interested in her.

You can read their full story on our Success Story page.

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Congratulations to them both!

This goes to show that you must never give up.  Three month memberships are rarely enough to make online dating work and you need to think of a longer term strategy.  As long as you stick at it and are proactive then cupid will eventually find you too.

If you have your own success story please do let us know. It’s the best way that we can show everyone the site really does work.

Happy dating,

James Preece – The Dating Guru

Asian Singles Dating: Donald Trump wanted to date Princess Diana

Tuesday, August 18th, 2015

We read a very interesting feature this week that got us thinking.

Donald Trump Dating

Donald Trump Dating

Apparently, Donald Trump once had his heart set on making Princess Diana his very own trophy wife.  This was not long after her divorce to Prince Charles and Trump was absolutely besotted with her.

In order to woo her, he bombarded her with flowers.  Orchids, roses, the more extravagant the better. Unfortunately for him, she was massively creeped out by this rather blatant show of affection. From his point of view, he always thought he would have had a chance with her:

“I never had the opportunity to court Lady Diana Spencer. I met her on a number of occasions,” he said. “I couldn’t help but notice how she moved people. She lit up the room with her charm, her presence. She was a genuine princess—a dream lady.”

We can only speculate what their chances of a couple might be due to her very untimely death.  But if they had got together they would certainly attracted huge amounts of media publicity.

As a dating expert though, I really don’t think that sending lots of flowers is a great tactic.  If they aren’t interested in your then it’s not far off harassment and even if they are it can be overwhelming. After the first few deliveries the novelty wears off very quickly.

Smaller gestures are much more powerful.  If you send a bunch of flowers on a birthday or special occasion then it can be very flattering.  I know some people do this after a first date but that’s premature and you’ll look too keen.  Even if you had a wonderful time, it’s better to hold back a little of your interest and takes things slower.

We would love to hear your thoughts on this. Would they have made an interesting power couple?

Happy dating!

Asian Single Solution

Date Change for our Boat Party

Monday, August 10th, 2015

Have you booked yet?


We love trying new parties ideas out.  Our members love our useful midweek and Saturday events, but it’s important to sometimes mix things up a little.

New themes attract new faces and open up your meeting possibilities.

So as bit of fun, we are running the first ever Asian Single Solution Love Boat.

We’ve hired a moving party boat which will cruise along the Thames, giving you spectacular views of London.  We’ll be playing popular tunes in the downstairs bar, with a quieter upstairs bar for those who prefer a bit more peace and quiet.

As always, we’ll have our amazing hosts on hand to help you mingle and meet everyone. Oh and we are including a cocktail reception to make the night even more memorable.

We arrive back by 10.30pm so you will have plenty of time to get home.

The party will now  take place on Tuesday 1st September and departs from Westminster Pier.  Please check out the website and book now.

Lots of tickets have already gone and we won’t be able to add extra ones so don’t miss out!

James, Paul and Meera

Recent Feedback and Success Stories

Wednesday, August 5th, 2015

We love hearing your positive feedback about the site and the events

Asian Dating

Asian Dating


Here are a few of the latest emails we’ve had from our Asian members:

“I have been part of Asian Singles Solution for the past 3 months and have been fortunate to find a match from the site” AP

“Very Happy with the service” VP

“Great site” FD

“I met my fiance on your site and no longer need to be a member.” JC

“I think the site works well and did allow me to meet similar people.” PP

“It is a nice way of meeting people” JN

“Found someone” AS

“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single” VP

“great site!” TP

“I met someone at one of your events, and am no longer single” US

“Met someone, he’s great :)” BS

If you have your own feedback or success that you’d like to share with us, please drop us an email to [email protected]


Happy dating!

James, Paul and Meera

This Saturday: Summer Parties

Thursday, July 30th, 2015

This Saturday we have our two big Summer Parties


One is in Birmingham and the other in London.

Both events are looking really busy but there are still a few places left if you are quick.

If you’ve not already booked, please check out the EVENTS page on the site now!


Online Dating Book – I Will Make You Click

Monday, July 27th, 2015

Do you want to know the secrets of online dating?

Online Dating Guide

UK’s top Online Dating Book

Our very own resident Dating Coach, James Preece has released his information packed best selling Online Dating book.

Would you like to try internet dating but not sure where to begin?  Or are you an experienced online dater tired of meeting unsuitable, bizarre and downright depressing matches?


James is one of the UK’s top Dating Experts and regularly appears in the media.  He’s put this special guide together to help you learn the secrets to making it work.  It includes message templates, profile ideas and all the inside information you’ve always wanted to know about getting dates from online dating, dating apps and social media.

His tips and advice can be applied to great effect on the website and many members have already seen a massive difference using his tips and techniques.

This book reached number one in the entire Relationships Category on Amazon, making it a bona fide best seller!

The book is available on Amazon as both a paperback and an eBook for Kindle:

Buy Now

Make sure you buy it before your competition does!

You can check out the reviews and please do add your own if you enjoy it.


Our latest Asian Single Solution Engagement!

Monday, June 29th, 2015

Congratulations to Amz and Jaz who are due to get married next year.


The happy couple met on our site, despite living 165 apart!

Please do take a look at our “Success Story” page to read their story and how they overcame the odds.

If you have your own success story then please do let us know.  We’d absolutely LOVE to hear it and our members really enjoy knowing that the site can work for them too.

Happy dating!

James, Paul and Meera

Latest Successes Stories and Feedack

Wednesday, June 24th, 2015

We love hearing your positive feedback about the site and the events

Asian Dating

Asian Dating


Here are a few of the latest emails we’ve had from our Asian members:

“I have been part of Asian Singles Solution for the past 3 months and have been fortunate to find a match from the site” AP

“Very Happy with the service” VP

“Great site” FD

“I met my fiance on your site and no longer need to be a member.” JC

“I think the site works well and did allow me to meet similar people.” PP

“It is a nice way of meeting people” JN

“Found someone” AS

“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single” VP

“great site!” TP

If you have your own feedback or success that you’d like to share with us, please drop us an email to [email protected]


Happy dating!

James, Paul and Meera

What is your favourite pre-date song?

Tuesday, June 16th, 2015

When you go to the gym you have your favourite tracks on your Ipod.

Asian Music

Asian Music

These are the songs that get your heart racing, your blood pumping and make you work just that little bit harder.  For many, this is “Eye of the Tiger” or “The Final Countdown” – show stoppers in their own right.

However, when it comes to dating it turns out that lots of people have a favourite tune which they like to play before they head out the door for a date.  They tell us that is can make them feel much more upbeat and powerful, which puts them in a positive state of mind.  If they are feeling better and happier about themselves then it’s only natural they will have a more successful dating experience.

We’ve heard that Beyonce’s “Single Ladies” is a popular one before many women head out to a singles night.  For men, it’s  “Power of Love”…the Huey Lewis and the News version. Personally, we are big fans of Queen’s “Don’t Stop Me Now” to really amp up our moods!

Songs that have the same beats per minute as your heartbeat  ( 120 -140 BPM) are your best choices if you want to maximise the effect.  Scientists have shown that this the pace most likely to make your feel positive and energised, so who are we to argue?

So if you want to have better dates, why not download some of your favourites songs and try playing them before you head out the door?   It might make a real difference and you won’t know until you try it.  Must make sure you don’t choose a song that has a bad memory association, or you could be doing more damage than good.

If you have a favourite, please mention it as a comment at the end of this blog.  We’d love to hear what everyone else plays!
Happy dating

Single Solution

Do you have a funny dating story?

Thursday, June 4th, 2015

There’s no such thing as a bad date as at the very least you’ll have a good story to tell.


Funny Dating Stories

Funny Dating Stories


As a Dating Coach I think it’s very import that singles remember this.  Not every date is going to go perfectly, but you should learn a little from each one.  You are very fortunate that you are able to go and meet new people and try new activities and experiences. The secret is to make sure you go into each one with a positive, open minded attitude.

Things won’t always go the way you expect them to but quite often that’s when the most long lasting connections are made.  Nobody is perfect and if you are able to laugh at yourself you’ll be a much better catch!

I stopped going on dates a long time ago, but my job is making sure singles have successful ones.  I did a lot of dating when I was single and I use anecdotes to teach people how to have better dates. So I’ve put together a short story collection based on real dates that I had back in my single days. I’ve done this for your amusement and to show you even experts have odd experiences. In the end I met the “one” which just goes to show you have to keep at it.

You can download it HERE

I’m sure you’ll all have your own bizarre, strange or hilarious story then you love to tell people.
If you do have one, then please email it over to [email protected]

We’ll include the funniest ones (anonymously of course) here in the blog.  As an extra incentive we’ll be offering a lovely prize to the very best ones too

So please, don’t keep them to yourself.  We’d love to hear them and I know our readers and members would too.

Happy dating!

James Preece

The Dating Guru

New Feedback and Success for our Asian Dating Site

Tuesday, May 26th, 2015

We love hearing your positive feedback about the site and the events



Here are a few of the latest emails we’ve had from our Asian members:

“Good site & very heplful & encouraging staff, thanks” VP

“I have met someone and hoping this person is the one so thank you for your help !” KR

“Good site keep up the good work” VS

“Very good website and service offered.” JC

“Enjoyed my time on this website. I am grateful for this website and will recommend to other single friends” CB

“The dating site was a good experience.” KG

“It was a good starting point for my search” AB

“Currently seeing someone I met on Asian Single Solution” MR

“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single
Feed back : Good site” TD

“I have met someone!” AS

“Good site with a range of people to view.” RP

“Very Happy with the service
Feed back : I have met somebody and not longer need to use the website!” SR


If you have your own feedback or success that you’d like to share with us, please drop us an email to [email protected]


Happy dating!

James, Paul and Meera

Dating Guru’s Mailbag: She wants some space

Monday, May 18th, 2015

This week we bring you another dating dilemma solved by our resident dating expert.

“Dear James.  Please can you help?   I met a girl on the site and I thought things were going really well. In fact, we recently moved in together. I was looking forward to the future but she just told me she wants a relationship break.  I’m stunned and have had to move out to give her space.  What can I do to win her back?  AJ”

Hi AJ,

Many thanks for your message.  I’m sorry to hear things haven’t gone quite to plan.  You didn’t tell me the exact reasons why you were unhappy, but this is something you’ll need to discuss with her.

The most common reasons this happens is if you are spending TOO MUCH time together.  If you do, every little thing will get on your nerves and you’ll start to irritate each other.  Little things like not doing the washing up or leaving clothes on the floor can start arguments. Or there could of course be some other bigger issue that needs dealing with.

Relationship breaks CAN work as they give you the chance to see what life would be like without each other.  If you were close then she’ll soon realise things are much better if you are around.

What you need to do is give her the space she wants, but make it clear you love her and are not giving up.  Set a time to meet up and discuss things soon.  If she needs a little longer that’s fine but you don’t want to have to wait forever.  Tell her this and ensure you both stick to the same timetable.

Above all, listen to what she says and see if you can salvage things.  If not, you may both be happier on your own.

If you agree to get back together – and I hope you do – then you must make sure you communicate as much as possible. It’s only by making each other feel happy and special that you grow your relationship.  This means plenty of time doing things outside your normal routine as well as giving each other space to see friends and family.

Hope that helps,


If you have your own dating problem or issue, drop us email to info@asiansinglesolution with the subject line ” Dating Help.”   We’ll get our dating expert to answer the best ones here in the blog.

Happy dating!


James Preece

Asian Dating Advice: How often should I contact them

Monday, May 11th, 2015

Here is the latest letter for our Dating Coach

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“Dear James.  I’m never sure how often or how quickly I should text someone I’m interested in.  I don’t want to scare them away but I hate it when they don’t reply for days on end. It’s infuriating!  What’s the best policy? Thanks F”

Hi F,

Thank you for your question.  My answer depends on when exactly you are texting.  Do you mean before you’ve met them or after you’ve actually had a date?   Here are my suggestions for you:

1) Texting Before You Meet

If you’ve just met someone online and they’ve given you their number you really don’t need to be texting them at all.  The same goes for WhatsApp I’m afraid!  Speak on the phone to arrange a date and perhaps send a text the day before just to confirm.  You need to save your time and energy for speaking once you meet face to face.

2) Texting After a Date

It’s fine to text someone after a date.  In fact, it’s polite to follow up even if you aren’t interested.  If you are then you do have to let them know.  The next morning is the best time, perhaps telling them you really enjoyed yourself and want to do it again soon. If you don’t let them know you are keen they’ll just assume you don’t want to meet again and won’t text you to ask anyway.

3) Texting Between Dates

This is the time you really need to brush up your texting skills!   You want to keep up the interest and flirting between dates to make sure they are thinking about you.  Don’t reply too quickly as you want to give them the chance to miss you and you don’t want to appear too available.  It’s vital you don’t play games though.  Waiting three hours to reply just because they took two isn’t going to lead to a happy relationship.  Reply when you can but if you are busy they will accept it.



If you have your own dating question or dilemma that you’d like our Dating Coach James Preece to answer, email us at [email protected]

We’ll feature the best replies here in the blog.
Happy Dating!
The Asian Single Solution Team

Our latest feedback and Success Stories

Monday, April 27th, 2015

We love hearing your positive feedback about the site and the events



Here are a few of the latest emails we’ve had from our Asian members:


“Very Happy with the service
Feedback : I have found my bf ” JS

“Think the website is a great way to meet new people ” BS

“Very Happy with the service
Feedback : Met someone through the site” RG

“Met someone from the site after only meeting 1 other girl and things are going really well. Great service and excellent site!!” MS

“Met someone from the site!” PP

“Found the love of my life x” SK

“I have found the most amazing girlfriend ever” PP

“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single
Feed back : Awesome,no flaws” CR

” I found someone :)!” LK

“I have met someone via your site and now in a serious relationship with them so no longer need to use the site.” RN

If you have your own feedback or success that you’d like to share with us, please drop us an email to [email protected]


Happy dating!

James, Paul and Meera

Dating Guru Profile Review: LUCKSTAR89

Monday, April 20th, 2015

Here is our latest online



profile review for you

Here’s a look at his current profile.

LuckyStar would be a wonderful nickname, but LuckStar doesn’t mean anything. Unless there’s a reason for it I’d suggest you change it. After all, people call you Lucky not Luck!


You have a nice photo as your main image. I think women will respond well as you look friendly, smart and approachable.   You look fun and presentable in your album shots too so all good choices.

Interesting Fact:

Your Fact is OK but the “you’ll have to find out” comment isn’t enough. When people write it’s usually because they can’t think of anything more imaginative.




There’s nothing particularly wrong with you profile text, but there’s still room for improvement.  You’ve written a list of things about yourself but it’s better to demonstrate exactly what you mean.

For example – you say you are spontaneous so give an example about at time you were spontaneous.  You could say,  I am often spontaneous and once jumped on the first plane that was leaving the airport.  When you do this it’s much more interesting than reading a long list.

You’ve put the line in about winking for interest, but you’d get a much better success rate if you just emailed them in the first place. Winking can perhaps give the impression you can’t be bothered to write a proper message. It’s the people who take the time to send a short personalised message that get the results.



Again, this is fine but it’s very generic.  Who doesn’t want to meet someone with a similar outlook and enjoys life?   Can you try and paint a picture that would make someone think “Yes that’s me he’s looking for” ?

I hope this helps,


If you would like to have your profile reviewed and featured, then please email your request to [email protected] We’ll pick the best one each month and get our leading Dating Expert James Preece to offer you his advice on how to make it better in this blog.

Good luck!

James Preece – Dating Coach

Bring a First Timer for 40% off !

Tuesday, April 7th, 2015

We’re trying something a bit special for our upcoming Asian Spring Party


Asian Singles

Asian Singles


Our next big party takes place on Saturday 25th April at the Abbey.  We want to attract lots of new faces and make sure we have a big, busy crowd at the event.

So if you’ve never been before ( or have friends who are keen ) we have a great offer that we know you’ll be interested in. If you use the code below you’ll get a whopping 40% off your tickets….which is in addition to the 50% Premium discount!

Of course, everyone else is welcome to book at the normal prices so they can come and meet /welcome all these new people!


Terms and Conditions

  1. If you bring a first timer to this event you can get 40% off your total booking
  2. You must use the code below at the time of booking
  3. You must arrive at the venue together
  4. All attendee emails must be verified by clicking on the activation email sent from the website before attending.
  5. If you do not meet the above conditions 1-4 then you authorise us to charge the discount taken to your card or we may refuse entry
  6. Use code FIRSTTIMER for 40% off this event


We’d love to see you there!


James, Paul and Meera

Recent Feedback and Successes

Monday, March 23rd, 2015

We love hearing your positive feedback about the site and the events


Great Job

Great Job


Here are a few of the latest emails we’ve had from our Asian members:


“Great website very handy” KP

“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single
Feed back : Excellent site!!” NC

“Please accept my gratitude for organising such a wonderful event. The event was very successful. A great turnout of people. I had a amazing night. I didn’t meet anyone that I liked but made fantastic friends and took away cherished memories. The people were great. The Asian Single Solution team members were really polite and helpful too. Thank you. So many compliments were offered to me. What an enjoyable event. I look forward to attending future events for definite. You are doing a wonderful job Asian Single Solution.”!RB
“Great site, runs smoothly” KM

“I found my Mr Right on your site! Thanks :)” PC

“Very Happy with the service
Feedback : found a partner AP

“Very good event..” GS

“The party was really good, very nice venue, very spacious and good calibre of people. Very well organised..loved the chocolate fountain…such a fantastic idea..gets people talking!!
It’s the first time I have been to an event like that..nice way of meeting people in person rather than just online!” AV

“Very good site” SP

If you have your own feedback or succes that you’d like to share with us, please drop us an email to [email protected]


Happy dating!

James, Paul and Meera

Asian Dating Events: Please make sure you buy a drink

Monday, March 16th, 2015

We really need your help with a difficult subject.


We’ve noticed a worrying trend over the last 18 months that could potentially lead to us not being able to run so many Asian dating events.  So please take a minute to read this short blog so that you can help us.

When we book venues we have to do so on a “minimum spend” basis.  This is where we are allowed to use the venue exclusively in return that our guests will spend a certain amount on drinks.  This makes it worth them opening up specially for us and closing to the public.

However, while many of our guests do buy drinks, there are an increasing number who are just asking for free tap water.  This is incredibly annoying to the venue and frustrating for us.  The result is that some of our most popular venues have told they don’t want to have our events any longer. Obviously we don’t want that to happen.

It’s just good manners to buy a drink if you are using a bar…even if it’s a soft drink.

We don’t make a profit on the events as we do them as a bonus for our members. Most of the money we make is spent on staff, advertising, entertainment etc.

So here’s the deal.  Tap water is fine, but please buy a drink with it!

If everyone does that then the venues will all be happy and the spends will be fine.  We’ll also be able to get better venues for our parties which is great for you too :)

We don’t like having to ask this as we think it should be common courtesy anyway.

Happy dating!


The Asian Single Solution team

Chrome Diverting to Mobile

Thursday, March 12th, 2015

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Are you using Google Chrome browser?

If so, you may have noticed that some websites are incorrectly identifying you as a mobile browser. On you may find that the website sends you to the mobile version of our website.

This appears to be an issue with the latest version of Google Chrome.

As a work around, if you get this issue you can go to the main menu at the top of the page. If you open that, there is an entry to switch to main site. If you click this, then this should resolve the issue.

Dating Guru’s Mailbag

Tuesday, March 3rd, 2015

Here’s another question answered


by our Dating Expert

“Hi James, I’m signed up to I’ve sent quite a few of what I thought were nice personalised messages but no-one seems to want to reply!

Also tried the instant chatting but i know some people don’t like to be taken by surprise, for me i much prefer having an instant chat to see how the ‘banter’ is, but need to be ready for a get out clause!
Anyway, my question was about the personal messaging, i really thought it was the best way of making contact, instead of winking etc. Do you have any feedback as to how guys respond to that? B”
Hi B, thanks for your message.
The instant chat is just meant as a bit of fun and isn’t that useful beyond that.  Most people are to busy to spend much time chatting on there so messages are much better.
To get good results then yes, you absolutely need to be sending out messages rather than winking   It helps to send a credit with each one to make sure they can read and reply as non paying members can’t do this.   You need to be as proactive as possible and contact any guys that you like the look of.  Otherwise you’ll just be left with the people who contact you.  YOU need to do the choosing and as such have to send out lots of personalised messages that get them interested. Don’t worry about making the first move as guys love that.  If you don’t then other women will anyway!
I’ve also had a look at your profile and messaging.  Your profile and photos are great BUT I really don’t think you’ve sent out enough messages!   Dating is a numbers game so you need to be contacting 10 people a day – not 10 people in total.   Most of the ones you have sent were read, but it would also help to tell them what you liked about them that made you want to contact them.  A little flattery can often work.

If you have your own dating question or problem that you’d like the Dating Guru to answer then please do send an email to:

[email protected]

The best ones will be answered in this blog.


Happy dating!

James Preece – The Dating Guru

Recent Feedback and Successes

Monday, February 23rd, 2015

We love hearing your positive feedback about the site



Here are a few of the latest emails we’ve had from our Asian members:

“Asian Single Solution is a good site and avenue for singles to meet others who are searching along the same path” KC

“Services were good” RS

“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single
Feed back : Very good” AS

“I think you provide a fantastic service, the quality of people on the site are really good and the site in general is easy to use.” GB

“Met my one to be here :)” RP

“I like your site and think it’s a great concept” NP

“Love the user friendiness of your website – easy to navigate and a well developed wedsite … Packed with useful links. Your events are a good idea too.Thank you for introducing me to my partner!!” MB

“Great experience being on this site. Keep up the good work” RS

this is a great platform and I know many people that have used it well. I was introduced to someone outside of this site. I would like to thank you and your team for setting up this great too” HL

” I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single
Feed back : Happy in love” RK


If you have your own feedback or succes that you’d like to share with us, please drop us an email to [email protected]


Happy dating!

James, Paul and Meera

Valentine’s Ball a Great Success

Monday, February 16th, 2015

Our Hindu and Sikh Valentine’s Ball was last Saturday.

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We are delighted to report that the event was a fantastic success. Many matches were made and our guests particularly enjoyed the classical guitar duo.

With over 270 tickets sold, the party was a complete sell out which gave it a real buzz.

Here is some of the feedback we’ve had already:

“Very good event… I would be keen for more  events”

“I had a great time thanks. Met a few people and enjoyed the chocolate fountain”

Thanks you everyone that came.  We hope you have some dates lined up now.


We’ll be planning some even bigger, better parties over the coming months so do keep an eye on the website. 

If there is anything extra you’d like us to do then please let us know.


Best Wishes, 

The Asian Single Solution Team

Over 300 tickets already sold for our Asian Valentines parties

Wednesday, February 4th, 2015

Here’s a quick update for you


As you know, we have two AMAZING Valentine’s parties lined up for you:

7th February – Birmingham Ball

14th February – London Ball


Both are already massively busy with 300 tickets gone between them.  There are now less than 100 tickets available and these

will go just as quickly.  So if you want to have the most fun Valentine’s day you’ve ever had, book up now!

Our big Valentine’s Parties are on Sale!

Monday, January 19th, 2015

We’re delighted to announce our Valentine’s Parties are live for booking



We are running very special balls – one in London and one in Birmingham.


The Birmingham Ball is on the 7th February at a wonderful new venue – the Manhattan Suite at the Broadway Casino

The London Ball will take  place on Saturday 14th February at the Kensington Close Hotel in London.

We are doing our best to ensure this will be the biggest, best party we’ve ever had so we are pulling out all the stops. We’ve got lots of entertainment planned for each one and we are also asking our guests to dress up.

We will as usual have optional speed dating included and great hosts to introduce you.

You can find out more about each party on the website.

If you’ve already got your ticket then we look forward to seeing you then. If not, do be quick as over half the tickets have already gone!

See you there,

James, Paul and Meera

Asian Dating: How to make sure you find love in 2015

Monday, January 12th, 2015

Are you fed up being single?  It’s a new year so there are new opportunities.


As we head into the the new year it’s time once again to start making our resolutions.

For some this is to lose weight, stop smoking or to finally meet a partner.  If this is you then you have definitely

come to right place!

Here are our top five tips for you to give your love life a kickstart.


1) Book an Asian Dating Event.   This is your biggest opportunity to get yourself out there and start meeting potential matches in the real world. We’ve already got several listed for you to book on the website. This includes the biggest of them all – the Asian Valentine’s Ball.

2) Try Online Dating.   The start of the year is the busiest time for most dating sites and ours is no exception.  There will be more new faces than at any other time of year and they are just waiting for your to reach out and say hello.

3) Remember it’s not just you.  Most singles can feel a bit lonely at the start of a new year, but that’s absolutely normal. There are millions making exactly the same resolution as you.

4) Take Responsibility.  It’s your choice whether you are single or not.  Don’t blame anyone or anything else.  Yes, that includes the weather, your income and how incredibly busy you are.

5) Take action!   The only way to achieve what you want is to make sure you do something about it.  Make sure you have a clear defined plan about what you want and how you are going to do it. If you don’t you’ll find yourself in the same situation at the beginning of next year too.

If you need any help or advice then please remember we are always here.  Drop us a message at [email protected]  and we’ll be happy to do what you can.

Happy dating and good luck!

James Preece

Happy New Year Goodbye 2014

Sunday, January 4th, 2015



Goodbye 2014 – Let 2015 be your year for dating success. Here are our top 3 tips for success with

1. Load some Amazing Images

Your photo is the first thing people see.

Didn’t everyone say how fantastic you looked at the last wedding or family celebration you went to?

Why not use those images or similar, to impress the men on this site.

Main photo must be a head shot. Supplement that with some full length shots, and an action shot so people can see how you spend your spare time.

2. Write an inspiring profile description.

It can be hard to be original but it is vital that you tell others why they should contact you, and what you are offering.

Everyone likes going out, nights in and spending time with their family, so say something else. Tell others about an unusual hobby or interest. Desribe your profession in an interesting way.

3. Message Message Message

You know the phrase location location location. Well Online dating is all about Message Message Message.

Read the other persons profile, get them excited by asking a question about something they are passionate about.

Aim to contact a minimum of 10 men that you have chosen per session until you start getting responses. Do not rely on Mr perfect spotting your profile.

Keep your options open and embrace opportunity. It is hard to love a dating profile, but meeting in person and sharing time together can be a wonderful start to a relationship.


Do not forget to tell us about your dating success stories.

Good Luck