Archive for July, 2013

Yet another success!

Monday, July 29th, 2013

Congratulations to our latest


happy couple!

This is already proving to be the Summer of love as we’ve had yet another success story:

“”I was first attracted to Sheetal’s profile because of her pictures and the detail on her profile. We realised we lived nearby and hit it off straight away. After some exchanges of messages we decided to have a first date! To be honest it’s one we both will never forget as it ended up being in the most busiest pub in Leicestershire on a Friday night (bad choice)! After this we frequently met each other as we live less than 5 mins from one another! It turned out we had over 30 mutual friends on facebook and our families were already friends for over 35 years although we’d never met (so talk about a small world!)As time went on, we both knew exactly where it was going and what we both wanted. As soon as families got involved it was like a match waiting to happen! Today I’m happy to say I’m engaged to the woman I love and I will spend the rest of my life with. I proposed to Sheetal at an intimate picnic in a secluded country park. Our wedding is set for May next year.If it wasn’t for Asian Single Solution, we wouldn’t be here!

If you have your own success story then please do let us know. We love to hear about your matches – so don’t be shy – let us know!
You can email us at [email protected]
Best Wishes,
James and Paul

Dating Guru’s Mailbag: Is he wasting my time?

Monday, July 22nd, 2013

Here is this week’s Dating Dilemma


Answered by our Dating Guru

“Hi James.  I am 20 yrs old and this guy is 25 years old. We met at a mutual friends party which was a night out, I thought he was really attractive but never thought he would have any interest, but he quickly approached me and we spent most of the night talking, and really clicked (well he texted the next day to say that we did) .
For the next couple of weeks there was some texting between us (i live about 2 hrs away where i go to uni) whereas he works in my home town. We tried to meet up when i was down but we were both busy. Then there was more texting, but this time it was not as much as before, i don’t reply as much and hes the same now. But he sometimes flirts and texts me to “hurry up home” and “next time youre down im seeing you”. This week ive come home and i told him about it last week, he hadnt replied so i assumed he wasnt interested, he texted me a few days ago saying he didnt realise im back and if im still around and that he thought id have told him… Its early days, but im just so confused, theres playing hard to get.. and then theres this!  Should i even bother meeting him this weekend if he asks? A”

Hi A,

Many thanks for you question.

I’m sorry that this guy is messing you around.  Perhaps he’s not sure what he really wants or has a girlfriend already.

Guys do this quite a lot as they enjoy the attention and the flirtation. They just aren’t quite ready to settle down as they’ve not grown up yet!  So they string you along with false hope until they get round to making a decision.

The distance and time apart may be a barrier to him.

Having said all that, if he does ask you out this weekend then you might as well give him a chance. If you see him, tell him the truth about how you feeling and that it’s not acceptable.  Say it in a friendly way rather than telling him off, but you need to stand up for yourself or his behaviour will never change.

If things go well then make sure keep up the texting in between seeing each other so it doesn’t fizzle out again.  Make sure you speak on the phone often too as it’s better than texting.

If you don’t hear from him then you should probably just delete his number, write him off as a timewaster and look forward to meeting a better guy next time.

I hope things work out for you one way or another :)

Best Wishes,



If you have your own dating dilemma please email me via  [email protected]

Good luck!

James Preece – the Dating Guru

Another Asiansinglesolution Success

Monday, July 15th, 2013

We have news of another great match


Congratulations to them both!

Here is yet another success story that reached us this week.  Here is there story:

“I met Sanj on this site, he sent me a mess in December and we spoke on the phone a few times and then eventually went on a date in feb. We didn’t instantly hit it off but we knew that there was something there and decided to meet again. We had a great 2nd date and it all started off from there really and have not looked back since.I have had many dates via your website but never really had a great deal of chemistry with most men but once you know I guess you know just like they all say and really beleive that now. I thought my happy ever after would never happen as I have tried to meet the man of my dreams for a while and eventually gave up hope and gave up in the end I guess.But just so glad that he sent me that message and gave each other a chance.
If you have your own success story then please do let us know.  We love to hear about your matches – so don’t be shy – let us know!
You can email us at [email protected]
Best Wishes,
James and Paul

June Feedback

Monday, July 8th, 2013

Please read all about our


feedback from June

Here is a small selection of the emails that we had from our members:

“Good service with regular events” TP

“It’s good to have these opportunities as some people do not have time to meet singles.” SR

“I think its good site and one of the best dating sites, easy to use and get the hang around” TS

“Really good service” MS

“Thank you so much this site was amazing! I met the man of my dreams and now am officially taken!”  SA

“great way to meet people” PM

“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single Feed back : I liked this site and it worked for me.” NS

“Happy happy with your service” SB

“I have now found the man that I want to marry and spend the rest of my life with – he is a very lucky man indeed! Good luck to the rest of the single ladies out there I hope they can be as happy as I am xx” MT”

“Have met a lot of good people on the site.” NM

“Great site easy to navigate around” VP

“Very good and nice events.” Vm



If you have your own please do share it with us: [email protected]


Best Wishes,

James Preece – The Dating Guru


Dating Profile Review: SS1984

Monday, July 1st, 2013

Here is another


profile review for you

Here’s a look at his current profile:



Thank you for your request.  Your profile is very friendly and you definitely come across as a nice guy.   However, there are some improvements you could make.

Here are a few suggestions that may help:

1) Do you have any more photos?  Just one isn’t really enough.  Perhaps try a full body shot or one of you wearing something smarter.  I think you look a little embarassed in your current photo…as if you didn’t really want it taken.

2) The main profile text is fine but it’s quite generic.  What is special about you?

3)Ask a question or end with an invitation.  It will help women looking at it find a reason to get in touch with you.

4) You only seem to have actually contacted three people?  Online Dating is competitive so you must contact anyone that you like the look of, with a reply paid credit. That way they can read and respond.  The messages you have sent are too long so cut them down and get to the point!

5) What exactly is your job? I’d expect that most people would be a little confused by it?

6)  Finally, most of your interests are very “masculine”   You want to list some that women can have in common with you.  It’s fine to talk about what you like but think of some things that a partner can identify with.  At the moment, Formula 1, Snooker and DIY are unlikely to be good matches.


I hope this helps,



If you would like to have your profile reviewed and featured, then please email your request to [email protected] We’ll pick the best one each month and get our leading Dating Expert James Preece to offer you his advice on how to make it better in this blog.

Good luck!

James Preece – Dating Coach