Archive for April, 2014

Our latest Asian success story! Suman and Krishan

Monday, April 28th, 2014

We’ve just had news of another fabulous success story

S and K

We were delighted to get an email from one of our members, telling us the good news.

You can read it here on our Success Story Page:

We’d like to say congratulations to the couple and wish them every happiness.
Could you be next? If you have a story to tell please let us know!

James and Paul

The Ultimate Bad Asian Date

Monday, April 14th, 2014

There was an interesting dating story

featured in the news recently

Apparently a man went on a date with a lady he met via an online dating site.   He took her out for a few drinks and they ordered a few drinks.  At the end of the evening she she refused to split the bill or pay for anything herself.  She said she’d not brought any money as she’d assumed he’d be paying for everything.  The conversation got a little heated and he ended up stealing her phone as a way to get some of his money back.  Things got even worse when the police arrested him and the case went to court. Even though he won the case, he was still ordered to pay £1200 in costs.

This is a very sad story, but it’s one that makes you think.  It’s not uncommon for first dates to go wrong when one of the two singles thinks they are being taking advantage of.   You should be respectful to each other even if you aren’t that interested in dating or meeting again.

As a leading dating expert, I firmly believe that the man should always pay for the first date.  However, the woman must always at least make a gesture and offer to pay.  It’s just the right thing to do!  Otherwise, you’ll be seen as a money grabber and that you aren’t really interested in the other person.   At the very least,  neither of you should ever even think of leaving the house without bringing any money.  What if you have an emergency?  Do you really think everything is going to be free?   Dating is an investment and costs a little.

However…I’d love to hear what you think.

Who was in the right here?    Please add a comment with your own thoughts.  Or copy one of these to vote:

A  –  The man was right

B – The woman was right

C- They were both equally to blame


I look forward to hearing what our members things about this subject.

Happy dating!

James Preece – the Dating Guru

March Feedback and Successes

Monday, April 7th, 2014

March was another great month for our Asian dating site


Here is just a small selection of the latest emails we’ve had from our Asian members:

“I felt the website was a valuable way to meet like minded people. I will be recommending this site to my friends and colleagues.” DS

“Very easy site to use, and genuine people are available to talk to” AV

“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single. Feed back : Excellent” MP

“A nice way of getting to know other singles out there” US

“Thank you for helping me meet someone, very early days… this space!!” SK

“The best site I’ve been on.” EH

“Excellent thank you. I have met someone now.” AK

“Best dating site ever” SM

“Generally a good site and works well” SB

“Good professional service, happy with it.” KC

” I met someone at one of your events, and am no longer single
Feed back : This site has been a great help! Great site!” MR

“Flexible, easy to use, great interface” JK

“Good service, easy to use site. Would recommend to others” NP

“Site was good, easy to search for people such as if the are veg, drinkers etc. easy to search for the type of person you are looking for.” AK

If you have your own feedback or succes that you’d like to share with us, please drop us an email to [email protected]


Happy dating!

James, Paul and Meera