Is something frustrating you?


If you are finding the dating game difficult, then it’s quite understandable that you might be getting confused.

I know that everyone has different problems and finding dates can take a little while.  This important this is that you don’t ever feel stuck.  You have to be able to keep moving forward so you ultimately end up with what you want.  So we are here to help you on your journey and you don’t have to do it all on your own!

What I’d love you to do it tell me exactly what problem you are having right now.

Perhaps you aren’t sure what to write in your profile or how to get replies.  Or maybe you are getting lots of interest but it fizzles out.  Whatever it might be it usually something that can be resolved quickly.

I’ve been a Dating Coach for ten years now and I’ve helped bring 10000s of couples together. I’m an authority in the dating world and highly respected.

I’ll do my best to answer each and every issue, with my dating expert advice to help you make dramatic improvements.

You can either reach me at [email protected] or you can add an (anonymous if you prefer) comment to this blog.

Don’t put you life on hold any longer – take action now and you might just starting people and getting more dates than ever before!

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5 Responses to “Is something frustrating you?”

  1. Member1 Says:

    Hello Mate

    Liking your blog. I am writing to you to express my frustration on the lack of replies and messages I get since being on your website.

    I took great care in writing a good profile and uploading many photos – sadly the response has been minimal at best.

    Plus some ladies seem to be far too particulate (caste specially)

    what advice can you offer?

    Plus – why dont you do events in Leeds and the North rather then just Birmingham and London?

  2. james Says:

    Hi S
    Many thanks for your message.

    I’ve just had a quick look at your profile to see if I can help. Overall it’s really good if a little long.

    There are two clear issues though:

    1) You’ve been copying and pasting the same message over and over. Women can spot this and it’s often a turn off. You just need
    to tweak your message to show that you’ve actually read their profile and tell them why you are a good match. I know it takes a bit
    longer to write them but I promise you’ll see better results if you make more of an effort.

    2) Only about half of your messages have been read. If you message women who haven’t logged in recently then they probably aren’t going to be paying members or active. This means
    they can’t read and reply. So you’d be better off getting Premium Plus and sending a credit with your (carefully written!) message.

    As you were the first to ask for help, I did try and get you a free upgrade. But as you paid with Paypal this isn’t possible. However if you email the team I’ll see what we can do to help.

    As a site, we try to discourage people from thinking about caste. However there isn’t much we can do sadly if someone is looking for something that particular. We’ve found that most members are more open minded though.

    For events, we have tried areas like Leeds and Manchester a few times but there wasn’t enough interest. We’d love to do more but most guests prefer to travel to travel to our larger events.

    Hope that helps!


  3. singer Says:

    I feel there is a lack of politeness, empathy and consideration with the women, the whole lot of them. I think they are scared to go on a date. Look at some of the profiles, they seem to have taken a permanent residence here. We are all in the ‘same boat’ so a considerate, thank you but no thank you would at least show they are still breathing and have a head screwed on. But no, they look and stare. There is an indian song, translates as, keep staring, don’t touch. They just stare and don’t reply. Oh well, life goes on. But a bit of consideration wouldn’t go a miss.

  4. prav Says:

    Same problem as above here. I’ve messaged a few people but no one seems to reply on this site. I’m a fully paid up member so that hasn’t really helped and I do try to message people who are online. Also, I think I’m writing messages that aren’t copy/paste efforts, so wondered if you have any suggestions?

  5. james Says:

    Hi Prav

    I’ve had a quick look for you. I can see you’ve tried to make an effort with messaging. I think the issue that you are contacting the most attractive women on the site. These women are naturally going to get lot of messages. If you want more success contact a variety of women, making sure there’s lots of compatibility. There’s no much point contacting women more than 4 years younger than you.

    I’d also suggest you try using some professional photos as they will definitely increase your chances!

    Best Wishes,


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