Did you know that when you sign up for our Asian dating site, you get so much more than just being able to contact people?
You have access to a team of Dating Experts
Our company has now been going for over 17 years, which is a huge amount of time in the dating industry. We’ve learned so much in that time and know all the secrets about making online dating work. The great news for you is that if you need help then all you have to do is ask. We can review your profile, photos and messages in order to make sure you are making the most of all your opportunities. The best thing is that it’s absolutely free for all paying members.
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Best Events in the Business
We aren’t just about online dating – we also run regular Asian Singles parties too. For these, we have the very best hosts to help introduce you and have more available per event than any other company. We believe it’s important you get to know our staff so they can help you better.
A “coffee date” is often something our members do before a “real” date. The idea behind a coffee date is that you’re in a neutral location, often somewhere public. You have the chance to really talk, which gives you the opportunity to get to know someone a bit better. Unlike a date, there is no pressure to present yourself a certain way. This leaves room for casual conversation or intense questioning, if that’s the direct you end up in. Neither of you are trying to impress each other, you’re just getting a feel for each other’s personality. A coffee date is used as a screening test to determine compatibility.
If you hit it off, that’s great! The next step is making plans for a more serious date. If you don’t get on then perhaps it’s time to rethink your strategy.
Since there is no pressure on a coffee date, it should be easy enough, right? Unfortunately, that’s not always the case and you can find your date turning into a disaster. One of the most common mistakes on a coffee date is talking about relationships (exes, relationship goals, etc). Although it’s not a “date”, you still have to follow basic dating etiquette. A potential love interest doesn’t want to hear about previous relationships, whether they are good or bad. If you only have negative things to say about a previous partner, you sound bitter. If you only have positive things to say, you sound hung-up. You don’t want to give your date the idea that your heart/head is elsewhere. Instead, avoid the topic of past relationships altogether. It’s best to keep a coffee date light-hearted.
You are encouraged to ask questions and get to know each other. That is the whole point of the pre-date coffee date. The best subjects to talk about are hobbies & interests, things you’re passionate about, music & movies, etc. These are easy questions to answer and they provide enough information about each other. You can really get to know a person through the things they are passionate about.
The secret to making coffee dates work is to view your “date” as new friend instead. This should help to take ALL the pressure off for both of you. By allowing a more casual interaction, coffee dates give you more opportunity to express your authentic self. If you’re prone to making cheesy jokes, go for it. If your favorite outfit includes 3 different patterns, wear it. You’re not trying to impress anyone, which actually makes you more likely to be impressive.
You are just two human beings enjoying conversation over coffee. Doesn’t that sound easy?
The most important thing to remember is to follow the direction of the conversation. There are always going to be awkward silences. You only need to worry when they are frequent and long. If you find you have to manually steer the conversation, that could suggest you don’t share enough common ground. It never hurts to have conversation starters in the back of your mind. This can help get the conversation flowing again. If you’re both having a good time, sharing stories and laughing together, you’ll be seeing each other again soon.
Wine Tasting is a great way to have fun getting to know each other while learning something new at the same time. You’ll get the chance to try five or six different varieties, usually along with some nibbles too.
As it’s the Festive Season, do make sure you include a glass of Mulled Wine too! It’s the perfect way to warm up the cold winter nights.
If you have your own Christmas Dating Ideas please do add a comment to this blog. We’d love to share the most original ones.
Ice bars are a wonderful place to meet for a first date as they are different to your usual pubs and clubs. You are only allowed to visit for a limited time and you’ll be given a warm coat to wear once you are inside. When you visit, you’ll discover the whole bar has been carved out of ice. There might be sculptures or artworks for you to enjoy.
Entry usually includes at least one drink which is served from an ice luge. You’ll enjoy a naturally “ice cold” cocktail while talking to your date.
Afterwards, you can go to a warmer bar nearby or why not go for a hot meal to continue the evening?
If you have your own Christmas Dating Ideas please do add a comment to this blog. We’d love to share the most original ones.
Did you know that we have fully functional mobile version of our online dating site?
It’s very simple and fun to use and you can set it up on your phone in a similar way to a mobile app.
To do this, you just have to save a bookmark. Follow these easy steps and you can get this done in no time:
Visit m.asiansinglesolution.com on your mobile photo
If you have an IPHONE
Click on the box with the arrow to open up your menu. Then select Add to Home Screen. This will add an icon and link to your home screen like any other Application.
Click Add to Homepage to add the icon and link to your screen
If you have an ANDROID PHONE
Click the dots in the top right hand corner. Press to Arrow at the top and then Press Save
Once you have done this you’ll be able to use the site at any time you wish. We hope you have fun and enjoying using it!
